there are 2 guys who like or shall i say love me but im finding it very hard for which 1 to go for they both are my type,they both make me happy,make me feel so loveble & i dont know which 2 pick................can some1 help me plz???
2006-11-17 16:13:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take the one that treats you the way you want to be treated...
2006-11-17 16:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once i was also in the same situation. But i could choose 1 out of them. u just think about them for sometime. just think whom u like more atleast 1 %. then u close ur eyes and the 1 who comes to ur mind can be chosen coz u love him more than the other 1. there will be atleast 1 factor which make u love that person more than the other.
2006-11-17 16:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lubiafi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should for a boy that is better than both of them and date him. If there isn't any other guy, spend individual time with each one and make it sound like a not date so they won't hate you afer they find out you did it to both of them. Then, after your "date" you should see which one you had more fun with. Then, pretend it was like a real date. Which "date" did you have more fun with? Which one do you want to be with?
2006-11-17 16:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by fachizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a hard dilemma to have to make a choice from 2 men
You need to take a break from both of them & see which one you miss & pine for the most,then that's the guy you choose but you should make a decision soon as prolonging it only makes it harder
pick the nicest one goodluck
2006-11-17 16:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chose a guy who really cares for you. Chose a guy who u feel is not a flirt . Chose the one who can speak to you with close eye contact. Because the guy who fel for your looks cannot speak to you with close eye contact because his intention is not to be withyou for the rest of his life. He can be with u only till he finds another girl who looks better that u...............Please dont ignore my suggestion, because I have studied psychology and I know how cool guys think. If u choose a person because he is a cool guy, you have done a big mistake,believe me...for more suggestions mail me at shivakumar_4343@yahoo.co.in....
2006-11-17 18:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by SWORDFISH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should invite them both dinner and see which one behaves more maturely around each other. Let them know that you all are good friends, and see which one acts jealous if they see you with another man. That man, who is jealous, should be your man. Between them, which one do you feel more comfortable with? Which one have you know longer? Which one do you talk to when you have problems? If you're thinking of that one man in your head right now, you know who you should be dating and loving.
2006-11-17 16:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by lovinmylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who knows u better than anyone else is THE LIVING GOD....so turn ur eyes to Him and ask for help....He will definitely help u choose the right partner,,,after all love and marriages are made in HEAVEN
2006-11-17 16:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by mr_BIG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of them was "the one" it would be easy to choose. Since you're having such a hard time choosing, I say choose neither.
But if you're not looking for "the one" and you're enjoying the company of both, why not keep dating them both? (As long as you aren't telling each them they're the only one.)
2006-11-17 16:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by michelmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You should be able to tell which guy is more likely to make you happy and be good for you. Which one do you care for the most?
2006-11-17 16:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with both- u will be happy.
already both are making u happy, both love u,
if at all u want to choose then choose the hard one.
2006-11-17 18:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldn't lead both of them on. it's totally mean and hurtful and not very good for the relationship with which ever one you choose. just go with the one u think is best.
2006-11-17 16:16:20 · answer #11 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋