i just lost my mother and i am so lost i cry almost every day and i miss her so much i?

Answer 1

I am sorry for your loss. You are going through grief and pain. Do you have anyone around you can talk too? Maybe a priest or Rabbi or a close friend.?

Answer 2

I understand. I've been there. The biggest thing I can tell you is that it gets better. No, the hurt never completely goes away, but it does get better. My mom passed away 10 years ago last month. I think it was one of the most painful things I've ever experienced in my life. For the first couple of months I'd cry every day, two, three times a day, for hours . After that, it was every second day, mostly in the shower or while driving my car. Anytime I was alone, pretty much. The thing that helped me through it was my friends. I'd cry on their shoulders every day or as often as I needed it. After about 7 or 8 months, I'd cry a couple times a week, and about that time I was really mad at God for taking her away. I found it eased more over time and after a year or two I could talk about her without crying all the time. Still to this day, though, I miss her and wish she was here. I have spoken with a couple of counsellors about this and they've all told me that grieving is something we do on our own time frame. Don't let anyone tell you or make you feel that you should be over it already. We all deal with death in our own way. I hope that maybe just a little of what I've said has helped. God bless you and keep you.

Answer 3

I am sorry for your loss. I wish there was something I could do. But the sad part is that there is nothing I can do at all, except to say I am sorry.

It is not easy losing your mother. I know what you are going through. I lost mine in Jan.2006. I felt so lost and I was surrounded by my loved ones and they tried to make it easier for me. . But nothing helped. What did help was time. Day by day it was so hard to get through, but in time you will find that the pain does ease up some. You will never get over the loss, but you will learn to live with it. I think the first year is the hardest.

Maybe it would help to go to a counselor. Going to see someone could help you work through your loss. There is nothing bad in seeing someone when you are having a hard time coping with something. Or maybe a support group could be of some help.

Take care, keep your chin up and remember that your Mother would hate to see you in such pain. Remember her smile, the things that made her happy, look at the things she treasured.
This isn't great advice, but maybe it will help a tiny bit. I wish I could take away your pain, but the only thing I can do is offer this little bit of advice..

Answer 4

I'm sorry for your loss.i lost my mother Little over 2 years ago and still miss her everyday.crying is very much a part of the healing process,so it's OK to grieve for her.as time past the pain becomes less painful but loss is never forgotten.it helps to have a support group of family and friends around you.trust me ,this does help alot.talking about all the good her life gave to everyone ,remembering her in your happiest moments those are the memories that will help you as well.
so go ahead be open about your feelings ,the last thing you need right now is to bottle up all feelings.
find a friend,relative,sibling,elder,pastor,counselor,or anybody who will listen to your heart.
good luck and my condolences,

Answer 5

I'm sorry for you loss. I don't have any words that can help your pain, but know that over time this will get somewhat easier. Take care of yourself and when your able to function again try a support group. Or if you need to vent do so on here or feel free to email me...I'm a nursing home social worker so I deal with death quite a bit.

Answer 6

I am sorry for your loss,

I lost my mother last year and it was hands down the most devastating event of my life, don't force yourself to stop crying, let it all out go to her grave side and talk to her. I dreamed a lot of my mum, happy dreams which was her way of telling me she was OK. There is no easy way to deal with it just let your emotions flow, talk about it think of the happy times and remember one day you will be reunited.

Keep your chin up

Answer 7

I too feel your pain seems the pain of losing mom is like no other and there wil come a day when you just zone in on the good times that's when u know that mon is still with u no matter what don't stop crying just yet u need to go through that,then just laugh like there is no tomorrow man does that help me!and it 's been 2ys for me. trust God and he will direct your path.

Answer 8

hey dude. im so sry. i know what u feel lk i lost my dad when i was about 6 and i guess i really didnt understand it then but i do now that i ve grown up and sometimes it really does help to just let it all out! and yes of course if u hav someone really close to u or someone u look up to that would be a good thing to talk to them and really talk

and i really dont want to make u feel worst or anything but u will never get over it, u will come to an understanding and u will cry, i still cry when i think about my dad. so really dont worry to much and remember to let it all out b/c it will come out sonner or later its best if its sonner though.

thanxs and i hope u feel better soon!!

Answer 9

My heart goes out to you, my husband's mother passed away in May so we know how you feel. It will start to get better slowly. You need this time to be in pain and cry, and it hurts and feels horrible, but you do need to do it. I tried to fight it for a long time.......its called denial I guess......and its starting to hit me now instead. My husband went to our family doctor and she referred him to a grief support group and it helped him SO much. I'd really suggest you try a support group, or individual counselling. You have a million feelings going on that are all raw and mixed up right now......its ok to ask for someone to help guide you through letting them all out. Remember, you miss her so much because you loved her so much, that love will always be a part of your life, no one can take that away. I wish you all the best, take care.

Answer 10

Is this what your mother would want for you, of course not, she would love for you to remember her for all the wonderful accomplishments that she did, and she would want you to accomplish as much if not more, so wipe off the tears and get started or your mom will be crying as she raised you better than that