Do you find yourself more interested in becoming friends with a girl who you find attractive?
2006-11-17 15:59:13 · 11 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure people like to be with other people that they have a physical attraction to.
2006-11-18 04:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by The Tramp Collector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is asked in a way that is very interesting. Does it seem that people are more and more isolated as a way to keep their lovers to themselves?
Is there some certifiable difference in men and women makes them unable to be friends? Admittedly, I have a terrible time being friends with ex-lovers, but this may be besides the point.
I have a theory for you. Sex has been cheapened in our society so much that it is the only thing that the youngest generation (including me too) cares about. Sex, like drink and drugs and general consumption is something that with age becomes bit of a let down - it gets hyped as the greatest thing to do on this planet, and other ideas, like living together in a civil way or doing anything besides procreating/fornicating (which I happen to enjoy) is no longer at issue. My simple point being, sex is all fine and good, but it is also the biggest distraction facing people western people today.
that being said...your question suggests that yes, it is true because of the way you phrased it. Attractive literally means that you are attracted, like particles in chemistry, and then will be more likely to be in proximity with that person. it is necessarily true - this is the case because the counterfactual is also intuitively true - does some one being disgusting make you not want to be their friend?
too long of an answer for a short question?
2006-11-18 00:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by jacob b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... that's probably natural. Because like most guys if she's my friend maybe she could become more... and if it's more... Than I need her to be attractive. But being attractive are not does not stop me from being friends with a girl.
It's probably fair to say that guys will be friends with the girl and if she's attractive they may be more aggressive at seeking out more than friendship
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2006-11-18 02:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would I want to be friends with a girl that I wasn't interested in as a potential girlfriend? Guys really are not into that. If a guy is being your friend, he is really either getting in position to make a move or he is keeping you around for break-up insurance.
2006-11-18 00:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is very attractive, then I would straight away get to the point (that I wanna be her lover). But if I wanted to be her friend, then it doesn't matter if she is attractive or just ordinary looking. But if she was ugly, or worse than unattractive then (call me an ***, but I am being painfully & brutally honest) I would never want to be even her acquaintance.
2006-11-18 00:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some female friends of mine that I consider beautiful that I honestly don't want as lovers, there are some that are not beautiful that I wouldn't mind at all sharing a bed with. It depends on the personality of both people.
2006-11-18 00:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by leadfoot126 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Noone wants to go into the "friend zone" without getting a chance at the plate.
2006-11-18 00:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, well maybe not becoming friends, but getting to know you better.
2006-11-18 00:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes..
2006-11-18 00:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
2006-11-18 00:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by eloy024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋