Alright. Why do guys always go for the preps? I think they like looks more than personality. I mean, I understand that LOOKS does matter some point in time, but preps always get what they want. It makes me feel that preps are always stealing the guys I like! It's so ridiculous, i'm telling you. I mean, I feel ugly personally, but to others I don't know what they think but, I just wish some guys would just take a hint and date the ones who at least deserve guys more than the preps.
I am a kind of girl who is not pretty or ugly, just average type, and I have a low self-esteem because of this. Anyone agree? Reason why?
2006-11-17 15:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally agree that the preps get all the good guys and we're stuck with whats left. I agree with you to that guys should go for girls with a persanlity, instead of the ones, who try to be something they'er not, especialy preps.
2006-11-17 15:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by gayle d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhh i hate preps too I'm 13 and i've had a handful of prep trouble I think that if the guys are preps then they think they have to go out with a girl prep to keep up their status and if they arent preps then they want to go out witha prep because they want to be a prep too
2006-11-17 23:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by honest/blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kinda preppy.. like i love abercrombie/hollister.. i have like a preppy/beachy kinda style.. but i'm trendy... i really feel for you.. i've had A LOT of bf's.. and i guess i'd say i'm pretty.. but i totally agree it should matter more about personality! I always try to do my best in being funny, smart, kind, and caring.. i never make fun of anyone for stereotypes.. i HATE that.. and i never make fun of anyone period... trust me.. i don't have it perfect though... so don't worry.. no one does.. my parents are divorced and still rumors are started about popular people.. i guess i'm popular so yeah rumors are started.. i just wanted to let you know that all the preps aren't bad... i'm just a normal teenager like you... if you want to talk... e-mail me sometime @ californiagirl412@yahoo.com... just don't do anything stupid like suicide or cutting yourself or even drugs.. it's SO not worth it!
hope i helped somehow.. i feel for you! good luck!
xox- amanda<3 .. [i'm here for you]
2006-11-17 23:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by cali babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never went for the preps they were too HIGH Maintenance and expected too much also too self centered
2006-11-17 23:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jack C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wil be honest and say most guys want a lady on the street, but a freak in the sheets. We believe that they represent the lady part, and we hope that they will fufill the freak part of it too.
2006-11-17 23:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly and approachable. Say hi to everyone by name.
If you are well known you will be perceived as popular, and that is all you need. If people perceive you to be popular, they will notice you and you'll become a valuable commodity that everyone will want.
People will compete for your attention. That's what you want.
2006-11-17 23:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same...it sucks ay....its always the 'pretty ones' who seem to get everything even tho they can be total bitches...guys complain bout them bein that way then still hang out with them all the same....i guess we gotta find the quality ones...there are some out there trust me
2006-11-17 23:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by lexie1488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh...i don't like preppy types....
2006-11-17 23:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by backlashwarrior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋