i need help being more comfortable with my boyfriend t's like every time we talk or see each other i freeze up and don't talk or ene up being really mean i can't even look him in the eye i need help i'm seeing him tomorrow but we don't see each other that often going to diffrent schools and all. i really love him and really need help
2006-11-17 15:20:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing in a relationship in communication. Without that there is not much of a relationship at all. My advice to you is that start out slow. For example practice on a friend pretending its your BF. Then you can slowly move on to small talk with your BF. If he really loves you he will wait, and if he doesnt see that your trying then....yeah...haha... well i hope you work it out..! ~boycrazy
2006-11-17 15:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by boycrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not liston but my daughter is a sweet heart and there's this boy she was so gitty over and really liked and when he came over she didn't like being next to him but she really thought she liked him and myself as her mom thought he was wonderfull and knew when they got older they would marry.I mean i did whatever i could for this other child.
Come to find out they will not marry as he is a drug dealer.The moral to the story is noone can tell you what you are feeling what it really means but you should know somethings not right.As i told my daughter i'm not around the kids much but she is and she's very smart
2006-11-17 23:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem.. i get really shy around a really hot guy or a guy I really like.. But i learned taht they like you more if you talk.. even if its something stupid.. i regret never talking i missed out on alot..like why dont u talk.. are u embarrsed? i think when you are with him tomorrow like tell him a story of somethign that happened in your life.. not randomly thou.. like if he sys somethign that reminds you of it.. and get him to laugh at first.. to me it makes me feel more comfortable because you know he is having a good time. hope this somehow helps u oif not .. sry lol
2006-11-17 23:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gaga <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is how you feel you cant say you love him as you would be comfortable around him. Really are you 12 or what?? Relax talk, do things together, socialise more.
2006-11-18 00:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Restezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? YOU GUYS NEED to talk more and do things together
2006-11-17 23:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self, maybe u aint feelin him, or maybe your to shy, but if u aint feelin right around him it aint clikin
2006-11-17 23:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by christopherzaldivar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋