I Fear i may remain a virgin in high school!?

Question

im a freshmen in highschool and im still a virgin. i feel that i will be for the next 4 years. heres a few details about me.

height: 5'9

weight 210

hair: black, with dark blonde highlights

hobbys, weight lifting, basketball, and video games.

intelligence: fairly acceptable

im not a nerd but im not really A jock either
im not severely ugly

in my opinion i just lack people skills and i earned a bad rep with my reputation

Answer 1

I'm not going to tell you to wait until marriage like most answers you're going to receive..
You still have 4 years of high school.. so your odds are pretty good that you can lose that virginity if you want to.
Don't worry about it...I'm sure you'll meet a girl.

Answer 2

My gosh what has happened to the world? There is nothing wrong with remaining a virgin in HS! What are you trying to prove and to who? The only thing that comes from sex in HS is STD's, babies, broken hearts and bad grades. You have the rest of your life to have sex. You should be proud of yourself if you stay a virgin. Think of it as an accomplishment, not a failure. I know that sounds cheesy and not what you want to hear but it's out of experience.

Try hanging around a different crowd that won't put pressure on you. That helps you not worry about it so much.

Answer 3

Still a virgin by the age of 17? OH, NO! You POOR THING!

Yes, I'm being sarcastic. Since when is it a requirement to lose your virginity before college? You're a freshman, so you're probably 14 by now — don't you have anything else to focus on?

Answer 4

It's alright if ure still a virgin through high school. I know alot of people who lost their virginity in high school and they regret it. I know the feeling im like 6' and i weigh like 190 (not all muscle lol). I'm prolly not gonna lose my virginity for awhile, but i'm ok with it. So don't be pressured by people into doing something that ure prolly gonna regret

Answer 5

What is wrong with being a virgin? you see on movies and tv people partying and getting laid all the time, but that isn't happening in the real world!

what will ur girlfriend or future wife think of you when you've boinked 10 other women. sex is supposed to be special, not a careless activity.

Answer 6

dude if your a freshy than u have 3-4 more years left... and why is it so important to u guys about loosing your virginity. your life wont end if u dont go all the way with a girl. loosen up and have a fun time in highschool and forget all that stuff. its not as important as you may think. believe me i know im a sophmore in highschool and havent done anything but its all by choice. but if u do do it dont be stupid about it

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with remaining a virgin in high school. Some people have sex just because and you shouldn't set a time limit on this. When the time is right and you have met a special person, you'll have sex. Don't rush it.

Answer 8

I think it would be cool to remain a virgin thru high school, even if some people give you a hard time about it. You might be surprised to find that you're not alone.

Answer 9

i think that you should do whatever makes you happy. dont go looking for love. it will find you. and you may be having the urge to have sex, but i think that being a virgin is an exceptionally good quality in a guy..

Answer 10

lol this is kinda a wierd question to answer considering I'm only 13 but here it goes: first you need to find the right girl: then you have to make sure shes ready for sex too thats the best I got good luck -tisha