Do you ever avoid getting out of bed early in the morning to not face your roomate or partner?

Question

I do, then I have to rush in 10 mins to get ready for work after he leaves

I hate facing the same guy everyday, IS this wierd, does anyone else do this, I tell myself everynight I will get up early but then I always stall and avoid facind my roomate in the morning

I'm not afraid of him, I just don't feel like going through the same crap every morning,

I just can't stand busy bodies in the morning, I'm depressed too so I guess maybey that effects me

he is my roomate not my lover or husband

Answer 1

Sweetheart, that's a rotten way to live and millions do it everyday..if it is just a question of you liking quiet time in the morning (like me) then ignore the questions and comments and they will get the hint..
give off the right vibe and you'll get through. (picture yourself as a skunk or something unapproachable...nobody messes with THEM until they wanna be messed with)
If it runs deeper than that, move out or make him move out, you have to feel safe and comfortable in your shelter or it's not shelter anymore.
Good Luck

Answer 2

Every day of my life. At least my roommate spends every night at his girlfriends house but I know he comes back at 9:13 every morning. When I hear that key in the door I feel like everything is ruined. I sit and hide in my room until he leaves again around 10 or 10:30. If I have to be somewhere, I'll try to run out the door while he's in his room or in the shower. I don't have any problem with him except for that I hate the fact that he's in my apartment. The times I lived with close friends I didn't do that. It's only when I have an acquaintance living with me. I just don't want to deal with them.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I know how you feel and sympathize completely! My somewhat "insignificant other" gets up in the am to go to work and makes enough noise to raise the dead, just to try to wake me up so he can complain about the pettiest crap you can imagine. I just try to pretend he doesn't exsist until he is gone! I also have depression and he knows it. I guess in this case the old adage "misery loves company" is applicable. Best of luck to you! ♥

Answer 5

Living with anyone is sometimes a big adjustment, obviously you are not a morning person. Possibly if you tell him how you feel he can be understanding of your space in the morning.

Communication is the key.

Answer 6

He is ur room mate hun so u dont have to feel obliged to make small talk in the mornings...
All he deserves is a ''grunt'' and a ''hmm yeh'' or "where's me coffee?"
If he was ur bf tho then u would have a few probs there in that department..but he isnt so dun worry about him and focus on urself!!

Good luck
=D

Answer 7

Yeah, my roommates' a complete and utter annoyance too, it's not weird trust me, maybe it's time you got a new roommate or move the heck out of there if you can't stand him.

Answer 8

Yeah

Answer 9

no it's not weird at all i do the same thing i'm not very fond of my roommate either. sometimes i'll make up excuses to leave the house so i don't have to be near him.