I have a long distance relationship, if its not hard enough already she freaks out everytime I talk to another girl. Today she had one of her guy friends hangout at her house from a little before I got home from work till around the time i was gonna go to bed, so no time for us to talk. I tried to give up as much of my other girl relationships for her and she still does this to me. What do you thing I should do about this?
2006-11-17 15:06:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hit it and quit it dude
2006-11-17 15:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that in case you particularly love Sara the way you think of you do then this component with Kenzie should not be an argument and you will possibly understand your answer... even with the indisputable fact that, that would not seem the case... so i think of that jointly as you like Sara, consistent with threat you're actually not IN love together with her? does that make experience? once you're in a relationship with somebody there is often the prospect which you will meet somebody new, somebody "extra helpful" the assumption is which you're so pleased with whoever that's which you do no longer prefer to maintain on finding. needless to say, that's no longer the case right here... in case you do no longer think of you are able to enable this component with Kenzie pass actual then do Sara a favour and end issues. you do no longer prefer this to be something which you're continuously going to ask your self approximately... yet on an identical time... do exactly no longer forget that in case you injury up with Sara that does no longer mean issues are going to paintings out with Kenzie... You gotta weigh your recommendations dude and be sure one or the different, you won't be able to have the two. better of success to you :)
2016-10-22 07:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by lagrone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's healthy for you both to have friendships with people of the opposite sex. She has to understand that she can't ask you not to have female friends (or throw a hissy fit when you talk to them) if she has male friends. Talk to her about this. Tell her that you don't think it's right that there is a double standard in your relationship. You feel like you can trust her with her male friends and she should be able to do the same for you. Good luck!
2006-11-17 15:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, tell her that you cant have your cake and eat it too, if she has problems with you talking to other girls then you have full right to be upset for her hanging out with other guys. My gf is the same way except she knows shes dead if she has another guy over. I try not to really say much when it comes to talking to other guys cuz I mean she has friends, but I just dont trust other guys, because being one I know what we can pressure girls into doing. I dont know dude just talk to her and be straight forward that you dont like her hangin out with other guys alone. I mean my best friend is really good friends with my gf and I dont trust them for ****.
2006-11-17 15:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes really insecure and just wants a companion even though she has a bf she still needs a guy there next to her to hold her hand and just give her hugs wen u cant its okaii wen she freaks out bout u talkin to other girls coz shes just scared dat ull find sumone and start liking them and want to be with them more then her its normal for her to feel like that but just talk to her about it tell her how u feel wen she does that and den brings guys home mayb u guys should go on a holliidaiis with eachother for a bit aswell ... xoxo
2006-11-17 15:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by bellas0124 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This chick wants it both ways, she wants to spend her time how she likes, but your time should also be spent how she likes.
If your relationship is long distance, take advantage of the time apart to ween yourself away from her and move on. You've already given up relationships for her and that clearly hasn't given her what she wants.
The balance of power is tilted away from you and that will only get worse over time.
2006-11-17 15:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should stop having a relationship with your friends. they were your friends before her and she has to understand that they are just that so if she can have friends why cant you remember it's a very small thing called trust
2006-11-17 15:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ii thiibnk u should really talk 2 ur girl about diiz problem because she should trust u nd not get worried iif u talk 2 other girls because thats just wrong well in my opinion u guys need 2 sit down nd talk nd iif she doesnt accept u talking 2 other girls well then u should brake up
2006-11-17 15:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by Po0kii3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bro like totally like long distance relationships like totally dont work out
2006-11-17 15:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance means she only knows what you tell her, get my drift? Just don't tell her about your friend girls and let her wonder.
2006-11-17 15:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long term relationships never seem to work out..as in ur case there is always the trust issue....n it is just too hard - especially for younger perople - to see each other enough....i say end it
2006-11-17 15:10:08 · answer #11 · answered by lexie1488 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋