there's this guy that likes me + he's one of my friends. he asked me out + i didn't know what to say so i went out w/ him a few times but then told him i didn't want to go out w/ him. i then changed my mind again + told him i liked him a lot so i would go out w/ him. tht's where i stand right now,but i'm having 2nd thoughts about going out w/ him. he's one of the nicest people to talk to + i feel i can be myself around him. the only problems are that he's shorter than me(which isnt THAT much of a prob but it still bothers me), he's not as sensitive as i wuld like, he's never had a gf b4 so he doesnt know wat he shud do 2 make me feel better + all that boyfriend stuff + i dont like him as much as i shud. we're in high school and ive had two bfs before but the last time i had a bf was about 2 years ago and i'm lonely. i want someone and there's this other guy i like,but this girl thats my ex-friend is going out w/ him. he likes me i can tell, but i see he likes her more.wat shud i do?
2006-11-17 15:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This first guy you need to ask if hes a friend. If your not sure about this then you shouldn't put him through anything and keep him as a friend. Don't rush anything OK. As for this other guy don't mess with others who are taken it just causes more drama that you can avoid in your life. I know how it it to be lonely and you shouldn't push anything. When it happens it will happen you still have college. :-)
2006-11-17 15:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by in_with_rage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This second guy is always going to have his interest divided, forget him.
The guy who you sort of like, and are seeing - try to be nice to him, he will pick up on those things that guys should do.
You are young, so let's be honest, you two are not going to be together forever, but stay with him as long as things are going well, don't throw him out if there is more good than bad.
2006-11-17 15:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by FSJD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't make up your mind about the guy your going out with then don't go out with him. If you like him maybe tell him what he's lacking in your relationship.
2006-11-17 15:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone now... he isn't really what you want.
If you start a relationship together and your still feeling this way inside then you may end up hurting his feelings later on.
2006-11-17 15:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres so many semantics involved in your question...I get confused trying to read it...you need to simplify...weigh your options and make the right choice for you...
2006-11-17 15:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋