Well like my lsat question, she loves him i think but she is scared to leave because she is scared of what he will do. I don't lik seeing her with brusies all over her and her sadness. How can i make her happy, I don't think i should tell her i like her because she won't need that after wrds. I just don't know, how can i help her. i want to so bad
2006-11-17 14:56:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt see your last question but trust me. she will not leave until she is ready no matter how bad the situation. i was in an abusive relationship for years
2006-11-17 14:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about your last question....but... look up WTCS on-line. it shows abusive men's characteristics. Just try to stay close and don't give him any reason to manipulate how you appear in her eyes. Those abusive men use anything to push their women's peers away. They are so insecure that the only way they know how to keep a woman is to control them, and push any safety net of friends or resources as far away as possible, even to make her think her friends aren't her friends, that her family hates her... etc. etc. don't let her get distant, get her going to church or something of the sort, to get more good friends and too make her see how different things can be. Also God is the best help any friend can lead another friend too. Pray for her. God bless! PS... you are a caring friend to want to help. My ex-hubby was pretty abusive.
2006-11-17 23:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know this is such a hard situtation! If you can convince her to leave him, press charges and get a restrainign order your golden! but like I said before most girls always stay!!!!!!! No matter how much love and attention you show her, it will be a cultur shock to her getting treated good! Woman are weird and complicated and we dont know why!
2006-11-17 22:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Double G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋