weve been together for alomst a year and we still wanna be friends....
2006-11-17 14:37:06 · 23 answers · asked by rockout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not remain friends.
Take care of yourself & keep busy. Make yourself the priority & move on.
2006-11-17 14:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on making yourself more superfly and doing the things that you enjoy for you, the things that you might have overlooked in the relationship, and then you will have things to occupy your time. Love is selective, you can love them and still be apart. Obviously you are not the perfect match or you would still be a solid couple, but at least you have someone on this plantet that knows you that well. Don't obsess over the friendship part, you either will end up spending way to much time together and get back together, or both move on, and there is nothing wrong with that. Everything is a learning experience. No regrets. mmmkay
2006-11-17 14:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you some thing I have a story that would knock everyone socks off but I haven't done it yet. Everyone I will write it soon not tonight. I have been with this girl for 2 years and I am a dumb A,S,S, okay. Been though so much and can't tell you well I have had enough I just called off the wedding that was to be in MAY and it has been only a week and I am such a sucker I tell everyone DO NOT TALK TO THEM. Guess what I am on the computer she is IM me so we are talking and laughing and having a good old time then I realize that I am talking to her what the hell I am doing. You have to move on and No talking and you no it will not work out and get on with your life your choice
2006-11-17 14:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though if you guys break up, treat each other as really close frens. Like he's more than a best fren to you but less than a boyfriend to you. It may hurt to think about the good times you had with him. But always remember that this is like a process of learning. Being in love isn't really that wonderful at times. But always cherish whatever you have spent with him. Look on a brighter side of life. Go out with your Girlfriends to a mall or spend more time on what you always love to do. Don't worry bout having problems on finding another guy gal! Coz, you never know, it maybe next week when your Mr. Right comes!
2006-11-17 14:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by lovemusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I don't think that will happen if you are in love. There is no way to just move on. Time is the only thing that will help.Some people hurry into another relationship but that doesn't really help because your feelings for your ex is not void just yet. But I would say give yourself time to get over him first and then try to be friends.OTherwise, you will find yourself still in love and probably hurt more because you are not with him.Then it could lead to just sexual relations because you still hold feelings for him and is willing to have him any way that you can.
2006-11-17 15:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you are willing to make the emotional committment ...or is it a sacrifice...to subjugate yourself to the other. You both know marriage is compromise on both parts. Also you aren't in love.......love means doing what you never thought you could do, just on faith in the other person........and knowing the other person is in the same place. Marriage is remaking yourself into a new entity and improving on that entity year after year. Right now you care for the other person, but are not interested is going beyond what you have now. Move on.
2006-11-17 14:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some people can move on easily, others don't move on but come to accept it over time, Id suggest to try dating and balance your friendship with him if possible, even if you aren't dating you two can still love and need each other, it will just take time to adjust, until then keep your options open and someone may come along and you'll fall in love with them. Time heals all wounds.
2006-11-17 14:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by A Beautiful Lie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never move on, In less you find a guy better than the guy you used to love then you move on. There is no point being friends with a guy you went out with, it is way too painful!
2006-11-17 14:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You couldn't really have loved them or you wouldn't want to move on. The best way to move on is not to be friends because that would make things worse for each of you to get over each other. Do things that don't make you think of the other one.
2006-11-17 14:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but I'm only 14 if u wanna get over him don't just walk away or find a hotter guy talk to him 1st that's the best way to get over someone :D
2006-11-17 14:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by † GeRaLd † 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋