So i was making dinner for us and he comes up to me and he was like were you looking through my cellphone and i was like um no and then i continued cooking and ignored him cause i know when he gets like that he never stops and he was like i know you were looking through it cause some of the numbers were deleted and i was like maybe you deleted them by accident and he called me the c word and he was like dont f with me and i was like what and then i put down the stirring spoon that i was stirring with while he was talking and confronted him and i was like excuse me what did you say and he was like you heard me and then i slapped him and then i was like you want dinner? then order it! i'm too sexy to be talked to like that! and then i went upstairs. Who was rude here?
2006-11-17 14:18:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
My child, I would come to believe that you would not take yourself back into that situation with him. A man should never disrespect a woman in that manner. Bless you.
2006-11-17 14:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sister Matylda 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He was rude, but you did not handle it the right way. By hitting him, you just might have taught him that hitting is ok with you and it might come back to bite you. Clearly he doesn't trust you, and if you did look up the numbers in his phone, then you don't trust him either.
What kind of a relationship are you both in, if you don't trust each other.
Another thing, men lose respect for women who live with them without demanding a commitment (marriage). If you are cohabiting, then that might be where the whole c word came from. He does not respect you anymore.
2006-11-18 01:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're "too sexy to be talked to like that?" How about I'm a decent person and I don't deserve to be treated disrespectfully by you? He shouldn't have called you the C word, and yes I think he deserved a slap for it, but you two should call it quits because he doesn't respect you. It's a lousy relationship.
2006-11-17 22:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was rude to you! he's lucky it wasn't me there because that spoon would've met his face, not my hand! oh yes you were certainly in the right place to slap him! I hope he learned his lesson, and whatever you do, don't apologise. You wait for HIM to apologise. That jerk! You gotta stand up for yourself and show him what you're made of and what you won't put up with, or he will see how far he can get. I hope he has a big handprint goin across his cheek. A lil souvieer from an awesome woman who knows how to get the job done! YEAH...
2006-11-17 22:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by jess l 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well the worst thing a women wants to be called is the c word and the hands on could of been avoided. by just saying what you said and then went up stairs he was rude but he dident deserve to be slapped. that could of led to other things and thats not what you want, and if he has no respect for you by calling you that then you need to kick him to the curb believe me I know I just got out of a 23 year relationship of total drama disrespect, taking me for granted and totally shitting on my feelings so you both were rude solardame1050@yahoo.com
2006-11-17 22:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by solardame1050 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You both need to grow up, from the sounds of it. Neither of you have the maturity needed to keep a relationship growing.
And don't listen to the people cheering you on. They are just as bad as you are.
Get out of this "relationship" and don't get into another one until you gain some maturity.
2006-11-18 00:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both were. Were you looking through his phone? It's wrong to snoop. It's wrong to hit, and yes, its wrong to use the c word. Maybe you should work on your relationship and stop worrying about being so "sexy" . Wow, 2 Sexy 4 U...grow up a a bit.
2006-11-17 22:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Design Kat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He was. You should have poured his food down the toilet and told him "If he wants to talk like a sailor he can eat like a sailor too. He can fish his dinner out of the water."
2006-11-18 14:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it is time to pack the ol' suitcase and move on. Neither of you is suited for this relationship.
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2006-11-18 02:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gurl...of course he was the rude 1. i mean i dont want n e other fight 2 start between u 2 but it was definitely his fault...i mean whats so wrong in lookin at his phone unless if he was hidin somethin which i really wish 4 u that its not true. but i gotz 2 give u props 2 stand up 4 urself.
2006-11-17 22:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by quest 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋