Help coming out to parents (gay)?

Question

Hello,

Im 15 and gay and my parents have been wondering why i havnt had a girlfriend yet or even asked them about it but i am gay. They dont know this and i think its time to tell them the truth. Do you have any tips for coming out and telling them or any past experinces that would be great and thanks again. no gay bashing please

Answer 1

Just be honest, sit them down and explain your feelings. Expect them to be upset at first, don't take this as insulting they need time to adjust. Thier anger may seem selfish to you, but it is not, they just saw their future change too. There ia alot of support groups for both you and your family. A google search should bring some up. Good luck, and I'm very happy that you have made this brave choice.

Answer 2

First of all, how do you know that you are gay? Many boys who have harsh mom or sister they think that they are gay; however I know few that after they met a nice, kind, and lovely girl the never met a man again.

So my first suggestion is to look for a nice girl, educated and if she be few years older than you, I think for start is better; because she knows how to take care of you!

However, if you are one of those people that they do not like to try several ways until they get into a correct direction; I am suggesting at LEAST for next several years do NOT tell your parents. They may get depress and ill. So, WAIT!

Many American they think that they must tell everything to their parents. I do not think so. A person sexual life is totally Private and Confidential. To tell everything to parents or other is sign of Stupidity! YOU must try to make a BIG CAPACITY OF SECRET thinks in your mind.

Now try to read my WebSite and turn your focus to more mature
subjects!

Answer 3

an excellent type of expectancies are positioned on little ones, fantastically firstborns and little ones with none brothers or sisters; among such expectancies there is reproduction and the hopes that the little ones will finally style households of their very personal. it should be fairly devastating for human beings to have a baby come out a gay, fantastically at the same time as such mom and father are themselves invested of homosexuality, and can't settle for or admit it, as is, in accordance to study, the case with maximum homophobic human beings.

Answer 4

well I'm 15 too..and i told my parents that i am a lesbian about 5 months ago....the worst thing you could do is tell them during an argument cuz i did that to throw it in their face...didn't quite go well...but i think the best thing to do is get them when they're nice and relaxed and just come forward and say mom, dad the reason why i haven't had a girlfriend is because I'm attracted to the same sex...and then just continue the conversation from there...GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 5

I know you might have heard this everywhere but it's true - just tell them. Get into a comfortable conversation and try to not make it too awkward. Be honest!

Answer 6

Well, be straightforward and honest with them. Just tell them how you really feel, and pour out all of your feelings to them. Good Luck & God Bless...

Answer 7

Maybe you should sit them down and take it slow...and then just shout it out....my friends parents understood him...he is gay to....

Answer 8

Just say we need we need to have a talk. If they really love you they will accept you for who you are and not what type of genders you like!

Best of Luck!
<3 Deanna

Answer 9

My friend told his parents who loved him very much and they started treating him like furniture, but he was 20 though, are you really sure at that young age what sexuality you are?

Answer 10

tell them straight up "im gay"