Don’t you think this is STRANGE? What should I do???

Question

Tree days ago a girl kicked me in the balls for fun in school; she and her girlfriends laughed at me for a long time, filmed me with the phones, then walked away and just left me there on the floor like a dog. I felt so violated and humiliated! It was very embarrassing for me to tell my Mother, but I did, and she said I should get used to it because probably it will not be the last time!!! She was actually smiling!!! I was going to tell her it still hurts, but after that I just lost my words. What do you think about this? Why are girls like that???

Answer 1

Some of the physical symptoms:
Such an extreme agonising unique pain that you can not move or speak. Trouble breathing, horrible feeling all through the body, pain spreads up too, sickness, weakness, almost throw up feeling, etc.

Some facts about testicle trauma:
-It may cause the victim to throw up.
-It may cause the victim to passout.
-Scar tissue.
-It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency, testicular torsion may not happen immediately after the trauma.
-Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then probably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup. Even when can be repaired, the resulting inflammation will turn most of the contents into permanent damaged material.
-Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.
-Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.
-Erection problems.
-May damage the epididymis, and that is critical, because sperm must be stored there to gain mobility to be able to swim.
-May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins inside the testicles, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.
-In case of very hard trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation. The swelling it is similar to mumps, but in the case of mumps it will cause sterility for sure, and the testicles(usually just one) will shrink too, very sad and scary.
-In some cases may cause the antibodies to start attacking the person own sperm.
-It may even cause death as result of PAIN, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail(heart beat will became fast and irregular, usually face and lips very white) until finally stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think, most of the times the victim is saved because gets medical attention on time, it will need shocks to the heart using the defibrillator!.
-Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, violated/abused, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young; especially if they do not know or never heard about “kicking in the groin”, and most especially and without comparison if done by the opposite sex. If it was an accident will only hurt physically and maybe embarrassment; but if done by a girl you will feel violated, sexually abused, extremely offended, humiliated, etc.
The victim may seem ok, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress, the worse symptoms may only reveal a year later! People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical suffering. All men that “like” the fetish called “ballbusting”, have some kind of mental or emotional disorder; and the most common cause for that is because it happened to them in the past, they are psychologically very ill, it may change their life’s completely. The emotional trauma of being assaulted in such a private area, or the physical suffering, or the fact that it is a barbaric act, should be more than enough for girls not to do that; but the sad truth is that the only thing that make some(not all for sure) girls think twice before doing that is the permanent physical damage. It is a form of rape, male rape.
-Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to ESCAPE harm, escape not to seek revenge. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you(only EMERGENCIES, only EXTREME cases of self-defense), not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun like it is most of the times, keep it a fantasy(why you girls don’t tell your Dads what you did, I am sure they will be PROUD of you).
-Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him, or if he is not expecting it you will not be able to hit him in an effective way.
You also have the right to use that defense if you are attacked by a STRANGER, and NO ONE ELSE IS AROUND, you never know his intentions. But you have no right to use that defense if you are attacked by a stranger or not, in a place where are other people around, like in school, or at home with your family, or in a bar, etc. If you do that in other situations, then you are 10 times worse than the guy you kicked.
-This is becoming too popular, specially in schools(sometimes they even get organized), girls get sexually aroused by that!. Women look sweet, but…….they are very mean and cruel by nature, they just try to hide it, it is very sad. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men do not even hit back after getting kicked in the privates. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women. Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh! Laughing at someone that is hit there, will only increase the suffering, and will show that you are very mean and cruel, at least try to keep it to yourself. And women claim they are more sensible than men and non violent, yeah right. If you still think is funny, then you don’t deserve to be loved by any man, and don’t deserve a family.
-And nothing happens to those sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!
It is something very serious AND very common. That is why it should be recognised as a public health(physical and mental) issue, and therefore should be strong laws to fight that epidemic serious phenomenon.
It is not recognised yet, so I think that if a boy is kicked in the balls he should beat up the girl(a kick in the balls is much worse in many ways), that way the girl will not do it again, and the other girls will be scared too, it is the only way to stop them!

“women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!!!!!!!
Girls answers regarding this issue are always disgusting!

If you are just a little kid:
A little boy mind is not able to deal with such emotional and physical suffering, when that happens to a little boy he will be forced to grow up, little boys have no idea that such degree of evil even exists, they will became aware of sexuality also and how cruel girls are, it is a big shock. Little boys are aware that is a “special area”, and because of the extreme pain they will assume something is badly damage, is very bad emotionally.
That will do permanent damage; even if he seems ok, the boy will just try to hide his feelings. People do not realize that, especially women.

Answer 2

If this was in school - talk to a counselor or a teacher (or other authority figure). This is unacceptable and scary behavior and demonstrates probable psychological problems on the part of the girls involved.

Talk to your dad if you can. And if you trust your mother, really open up to her about how embarrassed and hurt you are.

This is just plain wrong on so many levels.

-dh

Answer 3

You should have told the principal. No one should cause anyone physical pain. If it had of been you who hit her, you better believe the principal would have been told. Being hit there can cause serious damage. You say it still hurts? Tell you mom that you need to see a doctor. Maybe she will take it more seriously. I have 2 sons (and a daughter) and if this ever happened...I would be raising some hell!

Answer 4

I think your mom should have taken it more seriously. I'm not sure how old you are but if this happened in school I would speak with the principal, but since they have phones I'm guessing they are old enough to know better. If you really feel violated and injured file assault charges- you know they have evidence on their phones.

Answer 5

I think you did not seize the opportunity and talked to her when she was in front of you again. But if you really still love her, you can contact her and try to return everything to its right place. If not, just accept the mooring on a lost love. God love

Answer 6

What they did was very wrong. you need to go to the police and press charges against them for assault. The only time that a female should do that is if you are trying to hurt her ( rape, etc) Tell someone at school and call the cops!

Sorry this is happening to you.

Answer 7

i don't believe you i think you are attention seeking. Anyhow on the off chance u are 4real it can actually badly damage a guy to get kicked in his junk if you are having swelling and pain a doctor needs to see you. The school needs to know about this.,

Answer 8

Ahhh i am sorry hun. Poor guy. I think that your mom should have listened and not laughed. I might have a little but that is just girl. Did you happen to do anything to this girl that made her kick you?

Answer 9

Dude... r u a nerd or what??? certainly nobody would have kicked me in my balls! especially not a girl! but if i were u or something like this strange would have happened to me..^?!/ i i would probably have risked jail.. but that girl might have gone to the hospital... she..and her friends.. .... got the idea????

Answer 10

get back at thise girls on;t let them mess get ur friends to do something to them if they keep htting u get sonme other girl to hit them