i just start dating this lovable guy that went to high school with me.he been in "bad" realationship beforean has a son. when been talking for about a month now, and sometime when we talk he'll tell me" that he glad we 2 gether and how he never going to leave me and how he want us 2 be more then a couple" do anybody think it 2 early for marriage! 4pts for good answer
2006-11-17 13:49:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can set a time frame on what is "too soon" or "too long" when it comes to marrying someone...
Though... you may want to be careful that you are not the "rebound"... make sure that the bad relationship is over... and if it was really bad... he may need time to heal from it...
Also, take into consideration whether or not you want to take on the responsibility of "Mommy"...
2006-11-17 13:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like desperation on his part, and like both of you are fooled into thinking that it will be like it was in High School.
He can't be the same person you knew.
There's a saying that you can fool some of the people some of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time.
If you give this time, and really get to know him, you will see a truer side than you do right now. He won't always be on his best behavior, and it's easy to act a certain way for a short time. Eventually, the real you and the real him are revealed.
You also have to ask yourself why you would even consider this if you just started dating again. Sure, it's romantic, but it can really mess up your life if it's wrong.
2006-11-17 21:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
observe always observe . is this guys respect you , that he is polite, get too know his parents sometimes can know the way the parents are thats the way he is going to be becuase thats how they race him up. I can be worng . never rush to see his limit to see if he really loves beacuse sometimes is not all words is showing a lot of guys says a lot of things but a year later there cheating on you so be careful. Pray ask Jesus to guide in the right direction but first ask God to forgive you for your sins first always before you ask him anything and he will answer your prayers.
2006-11-17 21:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What matters is what you think, and you obviously think it is too early. If it was right , you would know it in your heart, wouldn't you?
Give it time and see what happens- if you get married you will(hopefully) spend 60 or more years married to this person- are you ready to say that's what you want? By the way, is he a good father? If he isn't RUN!!!!!!! Any man that good to his flesh and blood , won't be good to you either! I guarantee it.
2006-11-17 21:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make shure that you like him son and his son likes you because if he doesn't then you are in for it and mack sure that you love him! you need to know that when you are married you have to have money to keep your house, put food on the table, mony for christmas,birthdays ,and lots more outher stuf because it is not fun runy ing to mommyand daddy ever time you need sumthing so make shureof all of thos things and if you have it all then marry him!
2006-11-17 22:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by stephnanie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its 2 early well if its true love then no how do you fell about him if you love him say yes if you don't then say no
2006-11-17 21:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by cuttygurl2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is too early.
2006-11-17 21:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋