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I am a beginer with baby-siting and my last job the kids were little angels to the parent but to me little devils

2006-11-17 13:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by helperwhoneedshelp 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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JUST BE HONEST AND TELL THEM STRAIGHT OUT THAT THEIR KIDS ARE BAD BEHAVED AND THAT YOU DONT FELL COMFORTABLE TAKING CARE OF THEM.

2006-11-17 13:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by serestmar 3 · 2 0

i don't think of you may discover yet another interest which will provide help to carry your youngster alongside. i for my area have self assurance that kids who're aggressive (extremely at that age) in course of others is only because they are yearning interest and they get pissed off and the really way they vent is through being aggressive. possibly the youngster's moms and dads do not pay interest to him and once you babysit him and also you carry your children alongside...he nonetheless would not get the interest he needs....that's an extremely puzzling project, you may probable discover different techniques to address him, possibly in case you applaud the reliable habit....even as he stocks or performs flippantly you may do like a chart the position you write each and each and every of the youngsters names (which include your children names), do variety of like a pyramid and each and each and every time a baby behaves reliable they earn a fashionable individual...and on the great of the week the youngster with the most stars receives to go back to a call on a barren area, or a recreation that absolutely everyone will do, or you may get a number of this greenback keep toys, or McDonald's toys and also you'll tell them to %. one. If the youngster misbehaves you eliminate one fashionable individual and positioned him on day out. make constructive that when he behaves nicely...you applaud it. i wish it facilitates.

2016-11-25 01:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by chanelle 4 · 0 0

Is this a permanent babysitting job, daily 8 hours a day while the parent works? Or is this just a parents night out baby sitting job? If it is a permanent daily job, it is your obligation to talk to the parent and let him/her know how the children behave. If the parent refuses to work with you then you have your excuse to quit your job. If it is a parents night out job, you can tell them each time they call to ask you to baby sit, that you already have another obligation. You aren't lying to them, you didn't say another babysitting job. You do have an obligation to yourself you know ;-) Good luck.

2006-11-17 13:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Vida 6 · 0 0

I would just tell them that you are busy in your own activities right now and are not babysitting anymore. Maybe in a year or two their children will grow up a little and won't be so hard to handle. They were probably just testing you to see what they could get away with.

2006-11-17 14:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by luveeduvee 4 · 0 0

Well they are children and will behave that way! I'd give them another chance--and bring activities for them to do--board games, crafts, movies they like, etc. If they still are horrible, tell the parent, and tell them that you don't feel like you are in control of the situation therefore cannot be an effective caregiver to their kids.

2006-11-17 13:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by gspmommy 3 · 1 0

U simply write them a note and hand it to them.
If they were a little devil, then u need to give them more activities, cause they are bored and want attention.
Have paper and crayons and activities for them.
Draw cartoons u see on TV together , maybe their cartoon may look better,
Give them eggcartons to punch, or magazines to cut and paste pics on.
Keepin children into activities makes them not act like devils.
Its your call.....

2006-11-17 13:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0 0

I'd just keep it generic. Instead of making it personal (i.e. that you don't want to watch THEIR children), just say you are really busy with school or sports or your personal life or whatever lately, that you go to bed early, and you won't be taking on any more babysitting jobs for awhile but thanks anyway.

2006-11-17 13:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0 0

I wouldn't say anything, just disappear. If the mother asks you to babysit again, just say that you aren't babysitting anymore due to study or whatever

2006-11-17 13:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Hanky 4 · 0 0

Tell them you have to change your schedule due to school/work commitments. Be nice, thank them for the job. You could actually tell them their kids are little shi ts, but they won't believe you anyway.

2006-11-17 13:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 0 0

Just say "thank you for the opportunity, however I am not equiped to handle the allowed negative behaviors of your childeren.

2006-11-17 13:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by mksjmyd 4 · 0 0

just tell them that you will not be able to take care of their kids anymore and tell them how the kids act toward you.

2006-11-17 13:51:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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