Im dating a 19 year old. Im 26 and he's not very experienced in bed. Should i stay with him although its kinda boring and teach him new things? or should i let him go and look for him in a couple of years when I can enjoy him more in bed? I would like him to be a "MAN" in bed and take control
2006-11-17 13:38:47 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
teach him! then you'll have the perfect lover, just the way you want. there is no guarantee that you'll find the kind of lover you want, so train this one to be your perfect one.
2006-11-17 13:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...if you let him go, chances are you won't get him back. My advise is you should teach him, tell him what you want, take the lead for now until he learns what you want. I know, being a guy that if I was told what girls wanted and given "permission" to be more in control then chances are I would have found that very exciting.
Be direct with him and let him know everything you want and what you like, chances are at 19 he may not think you want him to be so open.
The thing about guys is when we're young, we want a whole lot of things sexually but don't know how to start, or are scared it'll chase you away...once we get a bit older then we build up more confidence and start to understand that it isn't just guys that think sexually. Take it from me, at 30 I'm a whole lot different then I was at 19, but if I had a "teacher" then I may have been more open a whole lot quicker.
Hope this helps!
2006-11-17 21:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a tough one. I guess it sorta depends on how much you like or love him. If you Love him maybe you should teach him just what you want. If you like him let him go get experience then check him out later. Ya know in my experience at 19 it won't last anyway. You are too young too, find someone that really rocks your world that is one thing that being young is all about
2006-11-17 21:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by sandy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want another woman to train him in bed when you can do it. You have the perfect opportunity to show this guy how to do it the way you like it to be done and you are guarenteed satisfaction everytime. Have fun making him a man.
2006-11-17 21:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone closer to your own age or older if you want someone to take control in bed. Inexperience is only good if you have the patience and desire to instruct him in what you like.
2006-11-17 21:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's all your looking for in a man i s how well he performs in bed then yes you should let him go..but if you really like/love him than don't let him go just because he's not satifying in bed..he will get better.
2006-11-17 21:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by hotsauce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's people like you that I pity. Because you only like them for their dick. I mean come ON, if you really liked this guy it wouldn't matter. Practice makes perfect, but sleeping with other girls to get better? You're pathetic
2006-11-17 21:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep him and teach him. You could have the best lover in the world.
2006-11-17 21:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Bob G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound really, really selfish.....if you like him, stay with him. If not, what makes you think he'll want to be with you if a few years??? It's now or never.
2006-11-17 21:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should teach him how. Tell him how you like it. He'll get the hang of it.
2006-11-17 21:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by angelica 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋