my friend, Jack, is a well known playboy in my town, but if having 4 girlfriends is not enough, he even took my gf's best friend, Steph, as her 5th girlfriend n they made out at my home last night... my gf still have no idea they r 2gether.. Steph doesn't know he has so many girlfriends.. should i tell Steph about it? My gf also don't know anything about what happened..
2006-11-17 13:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you describe Jack as a "Well Known" playboy in your town, those five gals must be a little slow on the uptake to not know it. Maybe they really do know, and each one of them thought that SHE was going to be the one to "tame" the tiger, grrrrrrrr.
Well, that's why certain guys are called Playboys... they love to play, and they do not tame easy LOL.
Y'know, James double-0 seven Bond is possibly the most famous playboy in the "playboying" business. I suspect there's a certain type of guy (plenty of 'em, in fact) who secretly fantasize about being a "Bond"man, and I know there are an equal number of females who fantasize about being a Bond man's woman LOL. I suggest you just stay out on the sidelines, and leave those five gals(or possibly many more you don't even know about) to enjoy their little bit of fantasy. My bet is all their bubbles will burst in good time, and you don't need to be in the middle of it..
2006-11-17 15:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...tough one, but I think you should have a talk with you GF, maybe not about the whole situation but at least that your friend is dating her friend and go from there. You need to be honest in a relationship or it'll end up hurting you in the end...picture if your GF found out he was playing her friend and that you knew, you might end up single. You should also talk with your friend and let him know that what he's doing isn't right. I know when your young it seems fun or fine to be a "playboy", but people get hurt that way and your friend isn't treating these girls right. If all these girls know he's doing this and still get involved then its different.
Talk with your GF, that you should do or it can come back to bite you.
2006-11-17 13:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you tell you could get yourself in trouble with Jack, and the girls may not believe you and get mad at you. try telling a girl at school, or talking to a girl that knows hes a player and they can talk to Steph. Because even if you dont say anything and Steph and your girlfriend find out you didnt say anything they could get mad at that too...sorry i couldnt be of more help. Good Luck though
2006-11-17 13:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you friend is doing is going to come back to him. And Aids is number one in America. I am a Medical Assistant and I work in a health center and there is a lot of people with HIV and all kinds of STD. I wouldn't even be around him because that is contagious. You dont have to stop talking to him say hi and bye. And give him an advice one time. That it don't tell him waht to do do . Be honest and you care. And you know maybe he won't listen. But he willl learn the lesson when he has HIV or something else. Pray for him maybe that is the answer Pary for your friends and your enemies and God will bless you.
2006-11-17 13:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she blocked him, she is moving on. Spying on her for your buddy is kind of creepy. Just because your friend wants this woman doesn't give you the right to try to manipulate her. The only thing you can do is talk to her. Tell her what you are telling us about this third person. But if she doesn't believe you or is just through with your friend, leave her alone.
2016-05-22 00:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing would be to tell her. I mean I think that you would like it if someone let you know; if you were stuck in a situation alike. Mention it to your girlfriend first. Your girlfriend will probably be the one to give you way better advice and more thorough as well. So ask her! GOOD LUCK telling her, it might me a melt down for her (I'm just giving you a heads up).
2006-11-17 13:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let your gf's best friend make out with a playboy in your home and you didnt tell her about it.
ok well first of all if they just made out its not really that big of a deal. i would suggest first filling your gf in on whats going on, and ask her what to as far as the friend
good luck and smile big even when it hurts
2006-11-17 13:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her then she tells him that you told her then you are going to cause problems between you and your friend. You are going to do what you feel is best for you in the situation. If it is possible I would just set it up to where she catches him with one of the other chicks.
2006-11-17 13:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend, or ask your friend not to break this girl's heart. Your girlfriend should appreciate you telling her, at least some of this. too much and you'll be breaking your friends confidence in you. just try and balance it right.
2006-11-17 13:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by sleepyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a VERY similar situation... my frined tryed to hook up with my wifes maid of honor (best frined) at our wedding... i told my wife what kind of guy he was and he was only going to hurt her in the end and she told me to stay out of it that it wasnt my business.. well i ended up telling her frined what kind of guy he was and just to be careful... so at least she wasnt hit unexpected.. i guess what im saying is that i would tell your gfs friend what kind of guy he is and warn her that she might get hurt.. (depending how close you are to her) then let it go from there... worked for me anyways
2006-11-17 13:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋