My boyfriend just broke up with me (sniff,sniff)any advice on how to mend a broken heart?

Answer 1

Surround yourself with friends, that keeps your mind off of it. Don't try to rebound too fast or even jump back in bed, things here and there would remind you of him...Friends are the way to go..avoid being alone too much..that gives you too much time to think...and always remember the sun always rises tomorrow...it doesn't stay dark forever...well then there is Alaska...but you get the point...things will get better...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You've asked the same question the Bee Gees did in a song: "How do you mend a broken heart? How do you stop the rain from falling down? How do you stop the sun from shining? What makes the world go round?" I first learned to be honest about why the relationship didn't work. I try not to focus on what was lost or what went wrong. I remember the positive. And forgive the negative. I remember love is a gamble, and I can only play the hand I've been dealt. I don't assign blame, I alibi. I remind myself of the good qualities, for both of us. I set positive goals, and work to achieve them. Be positive, not vindictive. And admit the errors you've made. And assign blame to yourself first. When you've finished berating yourself you can start on your ex. Since this is not a process to bring joy to your heart you usually won't finish. It took a couple of emotional beat downs for me to learn this, but this does work

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend. But the only way to move on is to keep busy like reading a good book and hanging out w/family and friends. Then eventually you'll end up finding someone else. It works everytime.

Keep Your Head Up

Answer 5

Just think about it if it was meant to be then it would have lasted so it wasn't meant to be. One day you will have the right guy and you won't have to worry about having to mend a broken heart. Do things to get him off your mind. Hang out with friends and do things that won't remind you of him, and do not linger on him. Just get over him he was the one that made the mistake not you so it's his loss not yours!

Answer 6

Just broke up with a guy (who really wanted to break up with me first, so it's very similar) and I'm at home on a Friday night for the first time in 6 months. So yeah it's hard I know...but you'll get through it. My friends and family have been really supportive.

Answer 7

Trust me your heart will mend !! In the meantime I suggest a few good girlfiends, lots of chocolate and a good sad movie to have a good cry.

Answer 8

Taek what life gives u and dont bit*h about and ull get over it pretty soon.Geez,it's not like he dumped u for a pomerranian......and if he did I really cant help u and that guy SERIOSLY needs a psychyatrist and remember a saying of one of my best freinds crazy german grandmother "Don't fall offe zee Godd*nm Chiken!!"(it's cause when she was little in germany they had weird merry go rounds with chikens and goats and things like that and she got on "Zee Godd*nm chiken and fell of it and got a bit bruised so it's her way of saying don't screw things up)

Answer 9

OUCH!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so sorry! Please recieve an e-mail hug from me!!
I know it hurts, been there, it takes time but it will get better. In the meantime, think hard of everything he has ever done to annoy you and refuse to remember any of the good times, just pop them out of your head when they appear. Thinking of the bad times will help you not glamorize him and make the pain worse.
If you can't think of many ask your best friends- they will remember every time he ticked you off- that's what buds do!

Answer 10

you think your heart is broken but, its not. So just try not cry because if you keep on you miss him. If you don't cry you feel a whole lot better! and a don't wast time trying to get him back because life to short and because you can get another boyfriend!