i hate my dad he's always trying to put me on the spot in fronht of my mom's family since espeecially he knows i don't like talking to thim and i'll try not to answer making me look like the asshole. and not just tht even when i do answer him w/o problem he tries to put me on the spot. and i swear i'm ot a stupid 9 yr old acting immature i'm perfectly serious. this guy has been an asshole all his life (but then when he's nice we have to be and he acts and says wyut's wrong w/ u). it is uz his mom's crzy but still he needs to back off FOREVER. (to prove to u again he's got anger managemtn problesm and just pretty much yelled and scared the **** out of us our whole lives and slpaed me when i was 6 mnths). it;s better niow since my mom has seperated but as immature as he is he's also a control freak and always calling at my mom's house and asking who'se in OUR house. and wut i hate even more is every1 falls for it! even my mom! i'm the bad one when he;s the adult and moreshit butno space
2006-11-17 13:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to take a chill pill and let your parents work out their own problems. Your dad has issues and I'm sorry. But try and stay out of them.
2006-11-17 13:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you sound like a kid who really feels he has no where else to turn. Have you ever tried talking to a school counselor? I know that that may not seem like what you want to do, talk to another adult, but I promise, they may be able to help you. If you are afraid to talk about all of everything at once, or you are not ready to talk about everything at once, that is okay. Start off small. To have an adult listen to you and to take you serious will be a great start. A third person to mediate between adults usually helps the adults understand and see what is really going on. I hope that everything works out well with you. God be with you.
2006-11-17 22:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shay Mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental help.net can show you ways to deal with an angry or verbally abusive person. This will help you diffuse some of the anger you might have as well. You don't have to like your father. If he puts you on the spot in front of your family verbalize "I don't want to talk right now." If he keeps badgering you, people will see how he is behaving.
You are going through a tough time right now, it will get better. Read up on anger and aggression and it might help you see why your father behaves the way he does. Then this might bring understanding and healing. Good luck to you.
2006-11-17 21:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop caring about your parents actions and get away fom there problems. Distance yourselves from them. Then they will realize they were wrong when you turn out for the better.
2006-11-23 19:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious??
2006-11-17 21:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋