This guy is very sweet and kind of shy. I really really have a thing for him, but the way it seems to go is that i talk or ask him questions and he answers. If i'm not around, he misses me, and calls me up. So obviously he feels something. Gets upset if i leave too soon. he wants me to stay but i'm not sure what to keep saying. i'm used to guys who take control. Though that's part of why i'm sticking with him, because i can see what a sweetheart he really is. He kisses me, comes onto me, and turns to me when he's upset. He just doesn't talk much, about day to day things. you know?
2006-11-17 13:19:37 · 6 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have patience. Some guys just aren't good talkers. Maybe you could start the conversation.
He's clearly into you. Just do your best to make him feel comfortable around you. I'm not a good talker either, but my ex continues to make me feel comfortable around her, even though she shattered my heart. She's the best communicator I've ever known. She carries the conversations and doesn't just talk about herself. She brings out my personality just by talking to me.
Dang, I should call her... LOL
2006-11-17 13:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a new... Girl... try to make him more comfortable around u, try talking to him and convince him that he's got nothing to be shy of... It's really simple, it could be a simple issue of whether he is afraid of saying something or that is shy by nature... say something like what do u think about having sex and if he freaks out than he's really shy and u'll gonna have to deal with it for the rest of your life if u choose to remain with him, cause he won't ever go searching for something else.
2006-11-17 21:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! this is how my boyfriend is! he doesnt talk much at all!! trust me, forcing him doesnt help it'll only lead to arguement! but let him so he know whats up. if he really likes or love you then he'll try his best to adjust and of course you should do the same thing too. remember relationship is two way road, give and take..also dont forget that adjusting is never too easy. it takes time so be patient im sure things will for out fine. :D
2006-11-17 21:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by mizz ADOHRable 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course.. just tell ur feeling to him if u really like him...
& just stay away from him if u dont...
cos like u said.. he got something on u...
juz dont give him any chances if u dont...
2006-11-17 21:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE STOP ASKING THE SAME QUESTIONS! THIS IS #2! WELL, AT LEAST YOU ARE NOT ASKING OPINIONS ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO BEATS YOU. THAT SEEMS YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK, BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE...GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO HEAL AND FIND OUT ABOUT YOURSELF! PEACE, NOT HATRED!
2006-11-20 08:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermmm he's dont know how to talk to you, although he's really want to talk to you.
i think you have to talk 1st. and try trained him how to talk.
2006-11-17 21:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋