my bf n me got engaged in front of my family n he didnt tell about this to his family when i asked why? he said because they will feel responsible for me then..its been 1 year he left to his country he said he will come as soon as he get job probably after a year.we chat on the net.he dont calls me because its xpensive for him to call.but whever i calls him.he said dont spend money because he feels guilty of me spending money on calls.when his friends asked him about our engagement he denied.when i asked y u denied he said i dont want anyone to tell my family.i will tell them by myself.he didnt complete his promise of coming bk after a year.when i asked him to come he said i cant ask you to wait for me more that would be selfish of me.i asked does it mean u wana get out of this relation he said no if u can wait 1 more year thats good.is he fooling around?
2006-11-17 13:18:26 · 11 answers · asked by zoya 7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Stop wasting your time and money on phone calls. Move on with your life. No need to break up. This relationship has been dead a long time.
2006-11-17 13:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By you asking this question tells me you no he is cheating on you.Why do us women take this bull poop from men.It's really hard for us women to under stand how easy it is for you men to brake the heart of someone you once love. You let us women go on thinking that your are still a couple.It's nothing for you men to sleep with two women at the same time.If man keep patting other men on the back every time they sleep around while they are married or engaged.All you cheating men out there you set a fine simple for your children. It's time to stop thinking of yourself and what is in your paints and start thinking about braking the chain.
2006-11-17 21:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be fooling around, either that or he's just not treating you as he should. Doesn't sound right to me if he said a year, then after a year said it will be another one and then put it on you to decide if your relationship will continue or not. I think you guys should cut it off for now. It's ridiculous to wait 2 years to see someone you're engaged to, and it's not right that he's hiding it.
2006-11-17 21:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first (depending on the age) he might be scared to let parents know about engagement.. but then reading that he left and denied it to other firends plus stayed year later? nope he hopes that you break up because if he breaks up he will feel really guilty. i say yes, hes fooling around.
2006-11-17 21:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not. If didn't tell his family because his didn't want to feel commited to you and found someone else he wouldn't be waisting his time still talking to you. Life take lots of turns and one year usually isn't a whole lot of time to get much accomplished . Hang in there.
2006-11-17 21:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey honey! he is totally cheating on you, so move on. let me tell you something the same thing happened to me last year, when my so called b/friend ask me to marry him and i said yes. then after a while he changed i don't know what happened but he wasn't the same man who asked me to marry him. see girl the first signs of man cheat is when he makes too much excuse like the ones your b/friends is making. anyway i don't know what to say but think of changing how you think of him. sorry to hear this sis, let me know if there is anything i can do for. power to the women. be Strong woman and show him who is losing something good.
good luck
take care and let me know how it goes.
peace out
2006-11-17 21:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by sha_fw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life and start over. You're too good to be strung along by any man, and remember, actions and lack of actions speak louder than words!
2006-11-17 21:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by P B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah look at the clues, ma...first hes lying cause he says its too expensive, when thefact that now, since 2005 almost every country is connected by satalite, to improve the high cost of communication. second, hes giving you the clue by saying its wrong of him to make you stay got dammit if the ***** love you, hed be damn happy that your being faithful real recognize real ma, and imma be real with you, the man wants it to end.
2006-11-17 21:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea, he sure is he is just keeping you around in case nothing better comes along, so i would end it right now and find someone that isn't afraid to tell his parents about you,
2006-11-17 21:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap. Dump him.
You are wasting your time. Even if he isn't cheating, you must get smart and get out.
You spend as much time with him as you do with me,,, ,,,none!
2006-11-17 21:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋