also, yesterday i had a bad day and i vented some things to him... nothing so bad though.............................is it over???
2006-11-17 13:03:56 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been going out since july.. we dont live together, we're both in our early 20s..
im in school, he's not...
he lied to me about his job when we first me.. he siad he was a cop but turns out he was "laid off" and now he's working as a security guard...
i've never met any of his friends or family.. he says that his family is "judgemental" and he's worried about what would happen if they didnt like me and he "doesnt want me to get hurt"
otherwise he's really sweet, he usually calls every night..
the venting.. was really just about life.. i've got a lot going on.. more depressing than angry stuff.....he says it makes him sad...
ANYWAY--you guys are the experts!!! let me knwo what you thinK!!
2006-11-17 13:53:32 · update #1
Trust me sweetie it is time to STOP calling him ,and giving him the joy of hearing how much you want to hear from him.
Take the weekend for yourself and do not call him at all...don't return his calls when he calls either.
Get together with friends and go out and have fun..or just a rent a few movies,turn off the phone and relax.
He senses that he has you hooked and so therefor he can make you wait...well do not fall for it.
Be strong... :)
2006-11-17 13:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First try not calling him again for a day or three after "venting" a common mistake we make as women is believing our guys actually want to hear something else we have to say...... don't make yourself so available no emails no calls wouldn't it just suck to have him break up with you in a text message lol make him wonder what YOU are doing and if he cares he will. especially after you called and called and then stopped outta the blue..no more then 3days though then send him some flowers,a strippergram somthing that says your sorry (even if u did nothing wrong) for the added stress of u calling like that at first and blah blah u get the point =)
2006-11-17 13:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tinydancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he trying to ignore u. Or he may end up cheating on u. I've had this happen to me before and I found out some things that I didn't know about until I talked to some of his friends.
2006-11-17 13:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda depends on how much anger you vented on him. Maybe he's trying not to bug you or let you have some space. You'll only know for sure if you ask him.
2006-11-17 13:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by abcdefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we need more info!!! do you live together? is this a new relationship???? dose he always return your calls?? i mean come on maybe the man is busy? give it some time and give him some space.........just when you do talk to hime ask him what's up? because your a young women and your not trying to be tied down to some low life loser;if thats the case!
2006-11-17 13:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by anyways_fukitol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill bet he left you for being so needy and helpless. get a life, and stop "venting" on people. find a hobby
2006-11-17 13:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by shinglezach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him...i'm pretty sure if he wants to talk he'll call you but being that your calling too much he doesnt feel a need to
2006-11-17 13:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont jump to any conclusions yet. you just need to talk to him and see what is on his mind. if u cant reach him by phone. show up at his door. take care and good luck.
2006-11-17 13:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh ur getting the brush off eh?? well its friday night go and party
2006-11-17 13:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to break up with you. If you can't get in contact with him. he is probably hiding something and is finally going to tell you. You can't count on him if he doesn't return your calls
2006-11-17 13:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Christina M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋