Like he walks in to find me and another girl making out hardcore and proceeds to "punish" us for being bad. Only problem is we can't find another girl willing to be the third party. No emotional connection for her and prolly not really a regular gig. We've looked on dating sites and none of our friends are at all suitable. Any ideas on where to look?
*Disclaimer - I know, I know, it's kinda kinky, but you gotta be willing to experiment right?
2006-11-17 13:00:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want to share you boyfriend with another woman? And trust me, it won't be a one time thing. Eventually he will want it again, and if you refuse, you two will start fighting, and he will either cheat on you, or leave you. But if youre alright with that then go for it.
2006-11-17 13:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I have an idea, but you're going to think it's a really kinky idea, maybe too kinky for you.
You go looking without him. A lot of times when a girl sees a couple looking, they assume that the guy pressured the girl into it and so they won't go for it. One of my wife's best friends was talking to me one day about how she would have told this couple yes if just the girl had asked, but since the girl asked with the guy right there, she thought it might have been something she was pressured into. If you go out alone, you can talk to girls, and if you see the chance, ask them if they're willing, and then that night when your boyfriend gets home... fulfill the fantasy.
2006-11-21 10:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, and here's my advice:
Forget 3-somes, and think 4-somes.
It's much easier to find another couple, and there is so much more fun all of you can have.
There needs to be no jealousy though, so you really have to talk things out & know your limitations.
There are TONS of couple/swinger meeting websites.
www.swinglifestyle.com is a good one.
2006-11-18 03:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're too picky. If you're bi-sexual find a girl that you like and that you know your boyfriend will approve too. Your not gonna find the perfect match so either settle for the next best thing or just put it on the back burner till it just happens.
2006-11-17 21:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by blood_red_mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is every couples fantasy. You are silly to think that there would not be an emotional connection. You could be opening up a whole can of worms by entering this kind of lifestyle.
2006-11-17 21:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by stangbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would DEFINATLY make it someone that you do not know so you do not have to worry about that person trying to cause problems in your relationship. I say get out of town to somewhere that has alot of clubs and find you someone that way. Just be very careful who you do pick.
2006-11-17 21:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try adultfriendfinder.com
They have a lot of people looking for the same thing.
We found a guy to join us for our fantasy and it was great !
Good Luck!
2006-11-17 21:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by JackJester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a local strip club together....get to know a girl you guys like...and ask her. I have a friend that did that before! Happy Hunting!
2006-11-17 21:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinky u say; Experiment u say; whatever makes
u happy.
2006-11-17 21:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This site isn't the place to be looking ... there is thousands of swinger sights ... are you just trying to ???? us just for the shock value... everybody has fantasys... big deal
2006-11-17 21:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋