Do you think it's ok to have premarital sex, because my mother always tell me that i shouldn't do it?

Question

but i had done it so many times, i'm 18 and i just want to know other people point of views.

Answer 1

i personaly want to wait till i get married but what ever makes you happy is your best choice.

Answer 2

I started to answer the question like this: if you have to ask then you are too immature to have sex. Then I read your last sentence. I quess I am shocked that so many young people 18 or under are having sex and having multiple partners! I know the world is changing but all of these sexual encounters with so many different partners is unbelievable! I must be a old fogey but I respect my body and I don't give it away to whoever and whenever. I hope you don't have any remorse down the road, and hopefully you are having safe sex(if there is such a thing). I think too many young girls are having sex too early and it will affect them emotionally at some point. Girls, ladies, please be self confident and respect your bodies!

Answer 3

you don't ask this question to people - because they will all say "don't do it".

Do it if you really feel it is right.

Premarital sex is a very important part of a relationship. It gives you good sexual experience before marriage. But at the same time, if you overdo it in an immature fashion with different guys many times, you become a slut. That is the reason why people say don't do it. But as long as you know what you are doing & have a focus in your sexual life, you can do it as you wish & nobody's gonna care.

Answer 4

You've made your choice so it really doesn't matter if I think you're making a big mistake. I guess you're Mom didn't say the right things to you.

Not so much because you're having pre-marital sex....but that at the young age of 18 you've done in many times.

By the time you're 25 you're going to be all used up.

Answer 5

This is somewhat of a complicated question.
So whatever i say, are just my views to what i think would be right.

I believe its something that you should ask yourself.
cause nobody knows you better than your own self.
you know what's good for you, and you know what you want.
but the thing is, you have to think alot of things out first, with certain actions comes responsibilities and consequences, which you should be ready to accept if they arise.

you should listen to what reasons people give you for doing it and not doing it, and later think about it and form your own opinion.
it should be something you want, and with someone you really care about. cause in this kind of a thing, nobody wants to get hurt and cry.

if you really care for a person, and you want to express love. you have to be sure, that it's not just about love making for the both of you. that even without sex, two partners get along very well, and still have a wonderful time. cause with time, looks can fade, and a partners become to busy with other aspects of their life. at that time it's very important that you still have a chemistry and love flowing in each others heart for their loved ones.

if you are still unsure wheather or not you should do it or not.
it's better to pass it till the time you are certain and have a decision. don't be rushed in to things. into something you may regret it.
the act of sex is one thing, with a person whom you dont' see or want a future, but the wonders of expressing love with the person to whom your world revolves around is amazing.

as far as parents are concerned, they have nurtured and cared for you, since birth, and they would only want what's best for you. and it's very common to have a difference of opinions. but probe deeper into this topic, by asking them, when was the first time they did it, and if they were in your postion what would they want to do. and still if you do it, with your partner, against your parents better wishes. be sure not to let them know...

i think i have said enough.

Khwab

Answer 6

As long as you take precautions to protect yourself from deceases and to not get pregnant.

At 18 your an adult and you need to be able to behave responsibly. I am assuming of course that your mature enough to take the responsible path of protecting yourself.

No one is invincible we are all susceptible to the many deceases out there in the game of life. That is not age specific!

Answer 7

actually it's not. it's in the Bible. and your mom is right. unfortunately, a lot of people are doing it right now. so the moral standards of the current generation has changed. but since you have already done it, and are continuing to do it. practice safe sex.

Answer 8

it depends on your maturity. it sounds like you are too immature to be having premarital sex. quote, "i had done it so many times." this is not what a responsible mature person would do. that is unless you are a slut.

Answer 9

Sorry, I agree with your mother, it is better to wait not many people do now days, if I had it to do over I would certainly have waited

Answer 10

I think that if you don't even plan on staying with the person, you shouldn't have sex with them. That's just slutty and stupid. However, I think that if you might marry them sometime in the near future, it's fine.

Answer 11

i started having sex at 14 only been with one guy (my hubby) and i wish i had waited. not only does your mother want you to wait but God wants you to wait. I did not realize that until i was 18 and pregnant God wanted me to wait and i chose to disobey! Please wait. Ask the Lord for forgivness, ask him to make you whole again. Ask him for your virginity back, he will give it to you he gave it back to me!!!