While I am now attending high school and I am a Senior. I like a girl who is a sophomore where she is shy, quiet, and have that kind of natural beauty that I loved. I do have one class with her where i have talked to her twice so far. Once is just to ask her for homework where I was actually trying to communicate with her. But the second time I asked her to come to my car for a little talk but she refused by saying that she has to ride the bus because her mom is expecting her. Would you guys tell me what is she really thinking? I am confused between whether she doesn't like me and just being shy....
2006-11-17 12:39:28 · 13 answers · asked by K L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree that asking her to your car may have been interpereted as a bit forward- but i wouldnt go as far to saying youve lost your chance. from a girls' perspective, i think you should try being more subtle, maybe not so aggressive with your attempts at hanging out with her. do some research and find out what her interests are, or if you have anything in common. shes an underclassmen and shes probably still a little intimidated by older guys- and who knows? maybe her parents are really strict or something. just dont jump the gun. get to know her a little first before you try and have a relationship with her or ask her out. relationships are all about trust, and she doesnt know you well enough to trust you- so work on that.
2006-11-17 12:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by alyak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't ask her to come to your car if she has to ride the bus. C'mon now, she IS in high school, and her mom IS expecting her. I would have done the same as she did when I was her age. Come up with some reason to talk to her little by little, and kinda flirt. I mean, not talk a whole lot at first, but every day, think of a new sentence or question for her, and watch and see how she warms up to you. If she smiles and you see her beginning to open up, then you might start to become her friend... which could lead to more. All the best!
2006-11-17 12:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a shy girl in high school and if you want to get to know that girl just joke around. Talk about something that is intersting that she might not know a lot about.Fascinate her. This worked for a boy trying to know me so it'll will probably work for you too.
2006-11-17 12:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by shortee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take it slow, if you really want to get her to open up to you. It's gonna take some time for her to feel comfortable with you, so stay in familiar settings. Don't get too personal right off or she will clam up. Write her a note or two, she will eventually come around if you work at it. Good luck!!
2006-11-17 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by blood_red_mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her through your class. Try asking her anything about school work. Try asking her to help with some school work during lunch hour in the cafeteria. Until she is comfortable with you keep all communication in public.
2006-11-17 12:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mom has probably told her to not go to guys cars, so you might have scared her off. Be more subtle and actully ask her things about life, you know what she does in her free time and stuff like that. Plain and simple get to know her.
2006-11-17 12:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus makes it happen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just need 2 try and bring up a conversation and try and get the gurl talking. Then maybe if u get her out of that maybe she'll start talking to u more then she use to.
2006-11-17 12:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont judge her yet ! mayb she just needs time !!
talk to her more and get to noe her ! dont ask her to ur car ask her if she wud like to hav ice cream or somethgin !! dont get bugged if she says no the first two times !
be sure tat she noes tat the offer is open !
talk to her more like a frnd than someoen hu wants to go out with her !
once she gets to noe u she will b more free with her thoughts
tc
all the best
2006-11-17 12:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you can walk her to the bus instead of your creepy car. Talk to her on the way.
2006-11-17 12:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol no offense but asking her to ur car is kinda creepy from a womans perspective. shes just shy, she probably likes you back, but wont say anything. u gota kinda nudge her out of her shell but helping her get her face out there.
2006-11-17 12:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋