V need each othr badly but my girl coming frm a xtian family and frm a nice family is now afraid to get into my hindu family.Her main fear is that she doesnt want to put her parents to shame while i keep sayin i will take you only if ur parents r fully convinced &am sure they will because her mothr also likes me but not as a lovr to her dughter but as a frnd. I need really gd gd support and strength frm u ppl by really telling how do v go abt it.
I have also given my prev Question Its the same naveen questioning.Kindly rem v both ve a vry gd rapport no issues any field so far,i ve no probs @ all with religion and even she.Her lil fear is how do v bring up de kids?I say it has to go by de boys side (hindu)but even xtianity wud b =ly respected and taught.I feel i can over *** these issues by bringin up de child rightly.But she needs a lil more courage.Kindly answer me such that it keeps us both going strong. thank u If possible leave me ur id's so that i can contact u :)
2006-11-17 12:34:59 · 7 answers · asked by Naveen R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
speak english.. i cant really understand your question!!
2006-11-17 12:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by brittany51o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a womans love is strong for her intended, she thinks to cross the hurdle of how the kids will be raised later and the only thing she really cares about is marrying the man she loves. Anyway the unspoken rule is, that the children are what ever the mother is. So can u live with your children really being xtian?. Here is another solution, teach the children both hindu and xtian, but dont confuse them. Good luck.
2006-11-17 12:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really tough issue. Both your family and her family will have problems with it. I am glad you're thinking about how you would raise children later down the road. Having different faiths makes raising children really hard.
If the two of you really are thinking of marrying, you need to sit down and work this out now, before you do. It sounds like she isn't ready.
How would being with you put her parents "to shame"? What do your parents think?
Good luck.
2006-11-17 12:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that both of you have patience.There is nothing to rush.If her mother likes you and if both of you are in love, then just feel relaxed and let this relationship bloom.Loving is the most important thing.Let things slide, circumstances will unfold upon you and you will take the decision accordingly.The will of God will prevail. Just submit to His wishes.If you are destined to get married, nothing will come in the way.There won't be any religion barrier for your kids. There are families that will accept them gladly and there will be no problem in their marriage.They will survive on their own merit.
Are you aware of vagaries of human nature?All that glitters in not gold.Have faith in yourself, as this is more important than anything else.But by no means be harsh to anyone.Even if you were to leave your dear ones be nice to them.
2006-11-17 12:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i couldnt understand 1/2 of that
2006-11-17 12:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confusing
2006-11-17 16:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please try to publish a dictionary next time along with u r question. anyway u can do one thing :dig a well and .........
2006-11-17 15:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by ANIRBAN B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋