Ok, I'm weird...?

Question

Ok, so theres this boy who liked me and I said I didnt want to go out with him, then he get's a girlfriend, suddnly I like him, then after a couple of weeks they break up, and he likes me again but now I dont like him anymore...

Then the same thing happend again except they didnt break up yet.

An I'm like scared to have a boyfriend it seems more like a responsibiltty than you know somthing I want to do.

So somone tell me what should I do?

Answer 1

You like the chase.

It's infatuation my dear you're in love with love not in love with someone. You like to pursue rather than be pursued and the challenge of taking someone away from another excites you.

I know a girl just like you she only wanted me when other girls wanted me and once she got me she felt like she had done all she needed to do.

It can help you and it can hurt you...most likely hurt you if you continue to only favor men who are unattainable.

Answer 2

Tell him there is something bothering u so much u'd like to tell him tell him its something about u and a friend. Ask him for a date, do that in front of his gf, feel very free and natural while doing this. Dont press him too much..give him time but keep pestering him politely until he gives u an ear. U can ask her to come along that there is nothing secret..while u re there u can tell him that u were into a relationship but u guy seems not to give u attention any more.(if u have a bettter frame up..good) go ahead and say..this guy says ure silly and he never gives u attention anymore. tel him that he has known u for some time now; he should tell u what he thinks about u. Why a guy would want to date u and why not. Tell him ..ure talking to him as a friend and nothing more. He should tel u where u needed to make adjustments. Feel relax when u do this and dont give a pity face. If this doesnt work, u can tell him u told ur cousin about him, and she is very intrested in seeing him this christmas..see how he acts or what he says. If he is positive, then turn out to be the girl the dy he comes to ur house to see u. If not, make up a new mail addy, upload a fake picture...pretty good. Add him tour list. Pretend u re new in a diff part of the state. U dont have many friends and u need a nice bf. If he says he is hooked, ask him if he has a big bro or cousin. Just stick to him keep chating with him. Play online games, riddles..u know..try to be intresting and he will be eager to see the face behind the mask...Good Luck:)

Answer 3

its normal to have a crush when u no u cant have it when him and this other girl are going out...it actullay not to much work if ur young like it sounds just go to the movies on the weekends and sit with him at lunch...i dont no how old u are but ur prolly kissing but u dont have to worry about that cuz the guy will take charge...dont be scared just let the moment control u

Answer 4

Quit being a twit, sorry, but obviously you only want what you can't have. A boy friend is not a responsibility, it is another human being, same as a friend, just with perks.

Answer 5

looks that you want what you can not have, and you are not going to be happy like that
seek for professional help
I dont mean you are crazy
the same way you look for professional help when something is wrong with your skin, or your heart or whatever, you should seek help when something is wrong with your social behavior

Answer 6

Just don't ever get one untill you really know what you want.Someone emotions is not something a little girl should be toying with

Answer 7

u are probally possessive. and having sour grapes when someone who used to like you, does not treat u the same anymore.
No offense pls.

Answer 8

hold off on the dating until you grow up a little. looks like you want what you can not have. in my day they called it fickle. today it is called being a *****.

Answer 9

Grow up, than worry about boys.

Answer 10

You should enjoy the view and nevermind the boyfriend.