i got pregnate in Feb. i meet this guy in May and we started going out we was togther for 2 months. than we broke up. i did everything i could to make him happy he stays in trouble alot and i really dont care if he ever got caught doing anything hed be in jail for 5 years but i care alot about him and i want him back i would do things to show him im down with anything for him. the other day he told me that he didnt want to get back togther bc i have a baby now. but he new i was pregnate b4 we started dating. and he feels if we got back togther that he would have to be more like a father and he dont want that. but its not his place to act that way. ive known him for 6 months and i feel diffrent about him ive done things for him that i wish i didnt do. i told him yesterday that i wish he was still my man and he didnt know how to think about that bc it would make him feel uncomfortable when we kissed or hugged or anything bc he would know how i still feel. i cant deal with not having him
2006-11-17 12:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok my ex left me when I was 3 months pregnant. I'm now dating the man who was my doctor. I'm dating him cause he asked me to, and I like him of course. But I've always known the my 1 PRIORITY is my THREE MONTH OLD SON not him. He's with me cause he wants to, he knows me and that I have a baby and he chose to be with me. HE chose it I DIDN'T BEG HIM TO BE WITH ME. It seems that you don't understand that your priority is your SON not that guy, he told you HE DOESN'T WANT TO, and you want to keep forcing things to happen just because you want to. If he doesn't want to then let him go, HE want something else for himself. If you really care about him then you'll let him go cause you will want him to be happy and if he's not happy with you then let him go. And YOU wake up stop thinking about how to bring him back to you and start thinking about HOW TO RAISE YOUR CHILD AS A SINGLE MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 12:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a real father figure! What is wrong with you lady? You find out that you are pregnant, start a new relationship with someone you know isn't good "daddy" material, and after only two months, want to put this guy ahead of your child? Your baby can't be more than a month old, damn, you already lost interest in being a mother?
Tell you what, girl. I would be happy to raise your child in a loving, SAFE, environment, and you can go hang out with all the thugs you want.
2006-11-17 21:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best option is to get over him.
1 thing is if he becomes your future husband and he still wants to get into troubles subconsciously, you will have a very very hard time looking after your child and future children and even him.
a marriage is holy and is when 2 people unite to become better persons and for their child's or children's future.
you should let him grow up and understand the meaning of marriage rsponsibilites.
if he is not ready to settle down, and he wants out, then you have to move on and find a better person.
what he needs is not marriage but a good counsellor and therapy.
you can be his "counsellor" and friend but it is not time to talk about marriage.
give yourself time say 1 or 3 months to check the status of the relationship.
after that you have to decide to move on with or without him.
you need a husband who can care and concern about you and your child and future child or children.
not a man who have not found the true meaning of marriage.
good luck!
mercury of love
2006-11-17 20:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new guy.. im think that you just was "sprung" haha youll get over it.
2006-11-17 20:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by brittany51o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just picture him with big bubba
2006-11-17 20:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋