well I am 19 years old I graduated when i was 16 I was just in a two year relationship and we broke up becasue i was penny less had bills out the ***. we would never stop fighting all he did was play video games and asking our parents for money. well i left him i told him i could not be with him anymore. WELL I started talking to this new guy He is 44 years old well its been two months since i have been with him. hes very nice has money treats me very nice told me he loves me and asked me to move in so i did. I live with him. its weird i was at my ex's then a roommates then a new guys house. all in three months, well anyhow he is really sweet my mother and father love him. his parents love me to death. we do everything togather i have this new kool job making alot more than i did. i just keep asking my self is he to old for me? any opinions?
2006-11-17 12:04:58 · 11 answers · asked by fallin_person_help_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm 22 and my man is more than 45, to put it like that. Some people think is weird. But you and I were looking for some stability and we found it with an older man. Some think it's weird, some think it's not right, some think we're crazy. By the things you say, it seems that you have a lovely relationship with this guy. You're both happy. and you're both settled down. Congratulations!!!! Now don't pay attention to the age thing. It's nobody's business but yours, as long as you're both happy and he treats you the way you deserve, then everyhting is more than fine. So just enjoy it.
2006-11-17 12:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're living in a dream world. No way the parents of a 19 year are so easily reconciled to a guy 25 years her senior as her partner, and his parents think you are a silly kid.
Where's the bit that says you actually have any real feelings for the guy?
2006-11-17 20:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you have a great relationship, odd with so many years of difference
what could go wrong?
you still have at least 11 more years of wanting to go partying; I am 2 years younger than your boyfriend and I dont like to party the way i liked when I was 20 something
you are too young to have kids, maybe in 5 more years, he´ll be almost 50, I dont think 50 year old men have the energy or will to deal with babys
if you have a kid at 25, when he/she is 15 (a difficult time to deal with children) your b/f will be 65 (a time to spoiled grand children)
you are going to be sexually active for at least 30 more years, he on the other hand, might have 10 or 15 more years
2006-11-17 20:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slow down! pls do not rely on any other persons money or anything.
i date with with a guy who is 11 years my senior (and i am 18) but i do not rely on his money! never ever. pls do not get this offensively. do not live in his house. not bc you shouldnt but bc you should earn your own life firt. you should prove yourself to yourself!!!!
in my case im now at college and im at managment department and i plan to have an mba, then a phd, and after that, marrige. bc aftr all those, i could make sure that iould make my own mony and get by, with or without my bf.
and 25 years age gap is sh really extraordinary. pls be carefull as i think there might not be any commons for you. 11 years is quite an age gap but partners can catch up with each other. but 25 years, he wil always be ahead of you. no matter what.
and do not rush to marry.
i for myself, have no intentions to marry bf 30. bc i should experience life before i settle down!
and the samegoes for you
take care
2006-11-17 20:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by ooeeoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess to each his own, but I've never saw the appeal of very young women being with men old enough to be their dad. Ewwww! But, anyway, it sounds like you're trying to talk yourself into being okay with the major age difference. If you keep having to think of reasons for this relationship, deep down you're not comfortable with it. Life too short. Find yourself a man closer to your age that is more mature than the one you had before.
2006-11-18 00:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be 19, but your is in the state of an adult. I really dont understand why age would really matter in your situation. you have a great guy who wants what you want. and it seems to me like yall have nothing standing in yalls way. No one should pay attention to the physical stuff of thier partners. Someone says he's to fat for you or he's to old for you. That's for you to decide and thats if you think like that. Its not the same as saying he treats you like dirt. There's nothing wrong with him. So why are you thinking this?
2006-11-17 20:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by tinamg_18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. not to put you down or anything, but if you are questioning this, then he probably is too old for you, and vice versa.
Zach Strass
2006-11-17 20:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 19 and you are dating someone your dad's age.
Wake up girl!!! What are you, desperate?
2006-11-17 20:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Age is nothing less then a boundry, created by people to cast away those who have been on earth longer."- me
2006-11-17 20:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by kaldiron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about the age what matters is that you love eachother.
2006-11-17 20:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by peanutbutterandkelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋