Do you hate your mom sometimes?

Answer 1

Yes and I still do even though she is gone because my mom never showed me how she loved me. She was always yelling at me and only love my brothers. I used to grow up and seeing other Asian women hug their daughters, so I didn't know why my mom didn't want me.

Answer 2

I'm going to take a different approach than most of the others who've answered. Hate is a strong emotion. So is love. I think there is a fine line between hate and love.

And, I think to the degree we hate another, like our mother, we hate ourselves equally. I also think we've grown up flinging words around like "I hate you." when we're really afraid of losing the love we feel for that person. It's the same with love. We use that word, sometimes inappropriately. "I love you." means I lust for you, I like you and don't want you to go away or as a means of manipulation.

Both "I hate you." and "I love you." have consequences. Sometimes these words can be so hurtful we can never recover what we had with a person before we said them.

I'd guess you get both highly annoyed with your mother, and later feel an overwhelming love for her. In that case, how do you feel about yourself? Are you angry with yourself for feeling such a strong negative emotion toward your mom.

Instead of the word hate, I try always to think in terms of annoy. Later it saves me from beating myself up for using the word hate.

And moms get highly annoyed with their children. Still it's up to us, as adults, to watch what we say back to our children when they hurt us with their words.

If you can, go hug your mother. For no particular reason at all. Think back to a time when you were little. Think of one special thing your mom did for you that made you feel loved, comfortable and safe. Let that memory melt the word hate away.

Answer 3

I've never truly hated my mom, I can't even recall ever saying it, but I use to look down on my sister for calling her the B word then being lovey dovey like she said nothing the next day. Regardless mom's always there.

Answer 4

No, I don't hate my mom. Yes, we fight sometimes(just verbally) but I sill love her because she has done so much for me. She raised me and has given me everything that I need to survive. Even when times are bad she is there for me. She respects me and I respect her. I love my mom. I don't know what I'd do without her. If you and your mom are having problems, just remember, communication is the key. If you don't communicate it can ruin your relationship with your mom.

Answer 5

hate is a strong word mostly for your mom and you should never say hate what happen if she would die then your last word of mind would be hate. think about it you may not like what she does but she is older then you so she know more then you

Answer 6

It comes from not understanding the reason for her actions.
You feel punished or restricted and might feel that way about mom or dad.
You will understand as you get older and will love them even more than you thought you hated them.

Answer 7

yes, but i dont really feel as if i really hated her deep down inside, alot of times you feel like that just suck it up and think of those who are not blessed with a mom, like you and i and think of some of the things she has done for you, and what she would do for you.and then ask your self do i really hate her? good luck and i am sorry if i did not help.but she did bring you into this world.

Answer 8

No.
Why would you hate her? Simply because she's being a mom? For caring about you enough to give you a curfew and punish you?

Would you rather she not care and let you run wild and ruin your life?

Answer 9

I have no feelings for my mom one way or another. My mom use to physically abuse me when i was younger, now she just get her kicks by mentally abusing me. I don't consider her my mother, i consider her as the woman who gave birth to me.

Answer 10

I guess we all have times when we hate our mums but I think deep down we still love them regardless.
Always keep in mind - one day she just might not be there when you really need her.