Why havent i orgasmed yet? I am 18, and took anti-depressants , lexapro to be exact, for 4 years. I am off them now, for about 1 1/2 month. Me and my boyfriend have tried so many times.Nothing seems to work. I feel dead. I love sex, but i want to orgasm. does everyone eventually orgasm?
2006-11-17 11:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by Maria F 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Anti depressants do affect your drive but you ultimately control whether or not you orgasm. You may have some things on your mind that are not obvious to you and it may be unconsciously affecting your sex life. Keep on trying and tell your boyfriend to be patient with you. Try to relax for a few days and give it a try again.
Time is a great healer!
2006-11-17 11:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on lexapro and have the same problem. After 1 1/2 months off you should be ok now. The best thing to do is just relax and dont think about, and it will happen and it will be great.
2006-11-17 19:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, actually many women have an orgasm, many lie and many don't have them. I was in my late 40's and it took a nice battery opperated toy with a tickler. Thank God my mom doesn't do Yahoo Answers. Anyway, you just keep trying and enjoy the playing. Spend at least 30 mins. on foreplay. Also make a rule, he doesn't come till you do!
2006-11-17 19:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by happyfarmerswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....I dont know what to say. People usally have this problem while they are on anti-deppressents, not after they are off them. Could you while you took them? I think that maybe your body is still trying to adjust to you not taking your happy pills. Try to buy some of those Vigara packets they sell at the gas station. They sell them for women and good luck!
2006-11-17 19:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Loca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the normal side effect for that medication, I won't touch any anti-depressents, way to many side effects. Talk to your DR. about the problem side still being a problem.
2006-11-17 19:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by DONNA'S NIGHTMARE COME TRUE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those pills will jack everything up sorry to say but your better off not taking them before love making
2006-11-17 19:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st question: I don't know. 2ND question: I'm a male and Zoloft did it to me. 3rd question: I certainly hope so. But if your problem doesn't clear up soon see a Doctor we sure wouldn't want you to go thru life missing out on one of life better things...........Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 19:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by pikeruss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋