My ex boyfriend and his friends(not so much my ex, because he doesnt want to show he still cares) will not leave my new boyfriend alone. Im guessing since they cant do anything they try to start things with my boyfriend. Hes not a big guy. But then again neither are any of the guys trying to gang up on him and fight him. Also hes 18, all of them are 17 and younger. I have asked them to leave him alone, several times. They come up to his work and wont leave him alone, they come to gas stations, the mall, movies, basically anywhere they can. They have even punched a dent into his car. He has done nothing to them, doesnt even really know him. Then they call and say things to me,I've already been through this with them, they would call me and verbally harrass me. They have kind of settled that down, but still do it on occasion. I dont know what else to do! We dont talk to them, we dont anatagonize them. Is there anything I can do or him? (yes im female)
2006-11-17 10:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by PAYlURTACK* 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Thats the thing we do ignore them!
We dont do anything to them, they still to this day verbally harrass me..
Its come to the point where I could kill all of them.
2006-11-17 10:31:34 · update #1
phone the cops.
2006-11-17 10:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kyral 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time to get a restraining order. It's your right, and someone needs to send these miscreants a message about acceptable behavior. They may be minors, but they could still be tried as adults if they break the law.
Don't be afraid to avail yourself of the systems put in place to help you against things like this. The police will understand. It'll also be a good experience in handling adult problems. And maybe those jerks will learn something.
2006-11-17 10:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by KC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ANNOYANCE!!
Nothing works better than getting rid of people like annoying them. Annoy me once and I pretty much done with you but I have a low tolerance for people in general.
Pick up an annoying habit... start spraying air freshener every 5 minutes around the people who bug you. Believe me they will soon get annoyed by it and leave... do this and other things EVERY time and soon they will be gone!
Come on I know you can think of something that is annoying to do...we all have it in us !! : )
2006-11-21 02:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill them. They'll punish you as much as if you'd hurt a human being. Try calling the cops next time his car is damaged. Get a restraining order. Or call their moms and dads and tell them what they've been doing! Embarrass the heck out of them.
2006-11-17 11:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. Record all the times they are harrassing you. If they are causing trouble at your boyfriends work, he needs to confide in his boss. You do not have to put up with this on your own.
2006-11-19 11:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Thia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it carry a tape recorder with you at all times on voice activation. With this information go to the authorities.
Keep records of the harrassment so that you can also tell the authorities.
2006-11-17 10:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Petra 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just take ur ex to your side. find out whats wroong, then fix it or just you know. GET EM AWAY! tell em to leave you alone. or u could get a restraint order cause this could get ugly and someone could get hurt. But still. maybe he is trying to show that he is still attracted with you without them thinking hes a sissy by scaring your new guy off.
2006-11-17 10:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by mn10230315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Press harassment charges & BOTH of you take out a restraining order against all of the guys giving you a hard time.
2006-11-17 18:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Julia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They sound like a bunch of bullies and the best thing to do is ignore them - they will get bored and find another 'victim'
2006-11-17 10:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Trillyp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 16:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pathetic, and you may need to contact the police and file a report. Sorry, it is probably not what you want to do, however, they are way out of control. Good luck and God bless********
2006-11-17 12:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋