OK first off i would like to say that i am happy with my girlfriend things are great but i would not be posting if that was all right?
Well she has got this best friend a guy best friend now he is gay or bi not sure which but thats a differnt story. So she has knowen this guy sense the begin of high school so like 4 years and they are close... really close and i cant help but feel kinda..... enveus or like i am not the only man in her life kinda thing.. not special.... like they sleep together in the same bed when he comes over her house and he is over there like all the time they are always touching on each other not like that but...... And she always screaming that she loves him which makes me feel like when she says it too me that i dont feel special about too much. its like ok u love me and this other guy. i could understand if she was like awww i love you man but shes like I LOVE YOU **** (sorry no names) Anywho i wanna know are my feelings miss palced should i just forget it??
2006-11-17 10:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think she should break up with you because you don't know how to spell or formulate a correct sentence.
2006-11-17 10:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I've got a friend who is in a similar position. I've told him several times to evaluate why he feels he loves her. Does he love her, or does he love the fact that he is with her? What about her does he love? Sadly, underappreciation is something that can seriously mar a person's life. I'd suggest first talking to her about it and see what she is feeling toward this guy. Tell her it bothers you that they sleep together and are so touchy. See if there is a compromise you can come to...maybe she doesn't realize it bothers you, and if she knows it does she will work on that. Or maybe she just doesn't care and "you have to just accept it"...if that is the case, leave her...it's not worth it. You deserve to be appreciated.
2006-11-17 10:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Guvo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are felling a common jealousy in a relationship, you are not alone..sometimes in a relationship pple get jealous even of an animal their spouse loves very much and feel as if they are hogging all the attention. make your feelings known to her in a kind gentle manner, an explanitory manner. and since its a girl we're talking bout, try to act like u r embarrased to feel this way and u wish u didnt and its only cuz u love her so much, or yeah , she might take offense to it and possibly tell her friend then u got a big ol' mess...after telling her tell her ur sorry and not to te ll him cuz u respect their friendship...but to maybe give u a lil more attention also
2006-11-17 10:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Amber Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. If i were in the mob, i'd say eliminate the threat but you know..lol, jk.
This chick might be cheatin'.
Just try talking to her. If that doesnt work, Hey it's you or him. Date her and ditch the other dude or leave.
option 2
Talk to the dude. tell him, "hey man, lay off my girl." If they sleep together and come over to each other's houses, I'd be pissed and leave.Relationship means stick together, not hang with some loser trying to steal your girl(thats how I see it)
2006-11-17 10:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about, i think your feelings are normal and i commend you for being so patient. talk to her, don't tell her its either me or him but let her know how you feel, from her reaction you will be able to decide if it is worth being with her, if she is cool and makes a better effort to respect you then stick with it. let her know that she wouldn't feel comfortable if you had a female friend that always around,sleepin over in your bed etc.....hope it works out and good luck.
2006-11-17 10:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by fenian1916 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes no longer your pal, afterall. you're doing properly to keep your distance for particular. you should want to enable your boyfriend comprehend that she can't be relied on to boot, because if she lied to you about him speaking smack about you, she ought to ok be the variety of woman that lies to get what she needs. She ought to mislead your boyfriend, even, to get what she needs there to boot. tell him to be careful and under no circumstances fall for the drama or believe her. also, do not live on her and her themes. She likely flourishes on any interest; being good or undesirable. do not provide her any, no longer even through talking to others about her. once you're telling all of your acquaintances about the placement and it receives again to her that you're all mad, she ought to correctly be feeling mind-blowing about that, something to stir the pot. So... proceed to stay away, watch your self, and examine out to ignore her. Be the variety of pal on your acquaintances that she hasn't been to you. good success!
2016-10-16 09:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think your right! Did they have a relationship at one time??? Whats up with them sleeping in the same bed? Have you tried to talk to her and tell her how you feel? I think you need to talk to her about this! Ask her how she would feel if she was in your shoes! I don't understand it but I definitely think you need to talk to her! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 10:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by panda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like neither of you is mature enough for a long term relationship. Move on.
2006-11-17 10:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to post under this catagory but no one goes to dating LOL sorry everyone
2006-11-17 10:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by lienell s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur feelings may be not miss placed but certainely ur words are..
2006-11-17 10:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by X BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you may be better off forgetting her.
2006-11-17 10:22:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋