I am good looking, but I don't have the most confidence in the world. I am so afraid to ask a girl out. I have a hard time starting a conversation. How should I start a conversation? Please don't say hi, my name is, because I don;t think I'll do that.
2006-11-17 10:03:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out what's she intereted in and use that as a conversation starter. She will love talking about herself.
2006-11-17 10:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mugsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the weather is always a good way to strike up a convo, because it's something we can all relate to - so lets say ur at the bus stop or outside somewhere and a cute chic happens to stand next to u - a comment like "wow the weather is nice today isnt it" or " wow it's cold today" - she can relate to that u can continue yesterday was nicer bla bla..hi my name is..so and so...(after the convo goes on a bit)
now lets say ur at a bar, and u see a cute chic at the bar itself - you can offer to buy her a drink - "hi, i couldnt help but notice how beautiful ur eyes were (try and stay away from anything below the neck) if you wouldnt mind i'd like to offer to buy u a drink - no string attached" and start the convo out that way - if the bar is crowded you can even say something like wow it's crowded tonight isnt it - gonna take a while to get a drink why dont i get it for u??
try and be subtle yet confident at the same time, remember women like confident men (not to overly confident) and i can speak for myself i like men who have brains, could have an intellectual conversation with them without the threat of thinking they want to take me home and that is the only reason they are speaking to me (major turn off) so try and be interested in her when the convo starts up that way she would be able to talk to u, and then ask you questions if the case may be and the convo would keep on flowing!
hope this helps! good luck!
2006-11-17 18:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw this is cute. I like a guy who when hes around me isnt a total jerk. To get her attion be as swweet as you can tell her she looks good today. If you have a problem starting a conversation try just sayin hey, whats up? or if yr in school did u get that math homework from yesterday? Dont be shy let your personallity shine through! I dont know how old u r so its hard to say somethings. Dont be a total pervert whenever i wallk into this one class this one guy alwas asks me if i wanna see somthing today. DOnt gross her out its so dumb and when u do that you lose all your chances with her.
2006-11-17 18:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Morgan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you should start a conversation but I know that we are most attracted to a man's good personality. This includes: respect for the girl, caring, honesty, etc. Actually, I think you should compliment her because I like it when guys do that to me.
2006-11-17 18:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be funny, make a stupid comment on what a teacher says, show off (but not too much, because girls hate it when guys show off all the time), do anything to make a girl laugh.
2006-11-17 18:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by _Viv_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in school ask about lessons or supplies;
"Hey, what did he say our hw was?"
or
"Hey, do you have a pencil I can borrow?"
sounds lame but u gotta work to ur surroundings. talk smack about other ppl or ur teacher, etc.
if in a public setting (mall, department store, etc.) ask them where the bathrooms are or where a certain store or item is located. but don't pretend like she works there cuz she might get offended.
i don't know what else to tell u.
peace
2006-11-17 18:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by elbluej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you said don't say would be my first response! So I guess I'll come up with try practicing with a close friend on an introdution and just tell your self you can do it!!!!
2006-11-17 18:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by lee lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is kinda hard, maybe just ask her questions like what kind of things she likes or her hobbies, stuff like that, that way she does the talking and you can listen. but be prepared to answer her questions too. hope that works, good luck.
2006-11-17 18:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he has 2 b nice. i mean really. girls like me love it when guys make us laugh! Just give a smile! i mean if u just b urself, chance r tht there r plenty of shy girls u would like if u paid attition 2 them, give it a try! good luck!
2006-11-17 18:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by potatobuggy11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like a hottie to me my names alexis e-mail me at soccerbitch1990@yahoo.com iam always getting asked out so hey i am hott so i can probally help you but e-mail me i don't have time right now
2006-11-17 19:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by alexis p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋