how can i spice up my sexlife, dont hold back i want details!!!!!?

Answer 1

porn. do it in public.(like say maybe at a peep show. spicy!) sexy lingere. invite a friend. ask him what he wants. there are hundreds of ways. get the karma sutra. come see me. ;)
good luck

Answer 2

The trick is not to be shy. Men love a bit of confidence in the bedroom. Start easy if you don't know what their reaction would be. For example tie him up and blindfold him. If this is OK go for ice - it's very simple but VERY effective!! Pour over his nipples and take a mouthful occasionally while giving him oral - if he's blindfolded he won't expect it which (I'm told!) is really hot. Lingerie is a good start (go for a teddy if you're not so sure, it's still sexy but not so revealing) stockings and suspenders always seem to be a favourite, however porn is better, you can watch and copy what's on the screen. Dressing up as a schoolgirl (it's a cliche but will do it everytime) is a good one too. If all goes well you can try a bit more like vibrators, candles, spanking etc.

Answer 3

Presuming you're a woman, perfect your "oral skills."
Vary the speed, light kisses, don't forget the inner thighs and balls.
Try this one as well, when performing oral on him stop use hot and cold technique, swig some tea, then perform, then use toothpaste or something mint to make it cold and perform a little more, keep alternating... it works.

Answer 4

Dressing up his fantasy figure is always good!! (For both of you-believe me!!!!)
Seduce him when he leasts expects it.
And a favourite of mine (it worked so well!!)-tell your man to meet you at a pub-preferably one located in or nearby a hotel. Hide yourself so he won't see you when he walks in-but you'll see him. When he gets to the bar,have a drink sent to him,along with a little note suggesting a rendezvous in your hotel room (unsigned of course!) and including a hotel room key. Out of curiousity,he'll look to see where the note came from-and there you are,dressed like a sex siren with a suggestive look in your eye! He'll be thanking you repeatedly!!

Answer 5

I love dressing up but by far my absolute favorite thing is getting my man to massage me with baby oil, try that, it's so amazing. I also find it feels so much better to have something in my bum while having sex or especially while he goes down on me. I can't recommend that enough!

Answer 6

Cream, KY Jelly, Dress up and use toys (cover with comdoms to stop infections and use new condoms when entering a different body part)

Answer 7

I don't think anyone can answer this for you on the yahoo answers and questions site. maybe try asking the people that have answered you via e-mail from their profile info and get all kinds of detailed information. :)

Answer 8

Go out and buy a sex positions book and be with a person who's willing to try different things.

Answer 9

Dress up as a naughty school girl with knee high black spiked heel boots, my bf goes crazy when i do it for him....let him spank you a bit and spend loads of time on foreplay and oral....squeeze his balls when you are giving him a bj and when he is about to come squeeze his balls and make him explode... let him see it all go into your mouth and smile at him as you swallow!!! He will love you for it!

Answer 10

You can easy... Go to a toy store.. start small and work your way up. find things for both of you. try new things that you though you might never like... whips, feather tie downs... you think you might not like it but then once you try it you might love it!! look online to see what catches your eyes...

have fun!!

Answer 11

Lingerie, wine, and some good music...you have to set the mood girl! Try the sex toys or the edibles! Something different that he is not expecting...go somewhere different to have sex...change, change, change is always good.

:)