How should I play things tonight.. i'm pretty nervous?

Question

I'm going over to a lady-friend's house tonight, a girl I've thought as a sexy dream girl for the past few years..we're going to do some sexual things. I'm kind of nervous, it's my first time. How should I play things? I'm a bit insecure about my body.. I kinda have manboobs. really nervous.. but I've done a ton of research

Answer 1

Don't worry about it . I don't think it matters much if guys have boobs we all do ! Just leave your shirt on if you want to.

Answer 2

Hi, Hope I am not too late?

I think you should be just natural with yourself and not feel as if you have to make a performance with this girl.

If you have already planned with her to do some sexual stuff, then that could go either way as it is far better to let something happen naturally than do anything planned. I am sure if you just feel okay and comfortable enough to kiss one-another this might lead onto other things and this sounds more relaxed and will lead to anything that may happen.

But don't leap on her unless that is what she wants and makes some moves on you too. But being just cosy with each other and listening to some great relaxing music with a nice bottle of wine will set the mood for the night.

Hope you have a nice evening, but remember to be yourself as much as possible!

Answer 3

Just go with the flow.... I wouldnt worry about your body if she wants you then she will not care what you look like.. Missy

Answer 4

Don't be nervous- What will be will be- If your nervous your "night" might not happen

Answer 5

just do what you feel safe with and research cant help much cause every sceneario is diff. and dont worry bout wat you look like if she has told you sexy things are comin she doesnt care