I have been talking to this guy for the last couple years on the internet and I have always had feelings for him... Well just here recently we have been talking on the phone to each other and we consider each other b/f and g/f. And now I really have strong feelings for him when do I know when to say I love you without making him feel uncomfortable with it??
2006-11-17 08:44:12 · 12 answers · asked by melissa_spear2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for me it does not matter how long you have been in a relationship when you say i love you, i think you should ONLY say it when you mean it. I think all the teens and dont Think i am some adult thinking bad of teenagers actually i am in the 8th grade so i am basically talking about my friends they toss around '' i love you'' to anyone and everyone and i dint think that is right you should only say '' i love you'' when you truly do. If you love him then just say it but go with you hart if you think it is too early or he might not ''love'' you then dont, other wise say it.
2006-11-17 08:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him how you feel...or wait for him to do it. There is no easier way, just say it and you'll feel better. Why has he suddenly decided to be your boyfriend after 2 years? I would really feel this person out before you make any rash decisions. How do you know this man isn't WAAAAAAY older than you or waaaaay younger or married? Sounds like it is long distance and no way of knowing. Just some things to think about. Be careful!!!
2006-11-17 16:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait until you meet him in person to see how he really is. You dont say i love you on the phone...this is too personal, too intimate and very meaningful words and if you want it to mean something you need to be face to face. I would wait to here it from him first though.
2006-11-17 16:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start things like how do you feel about me and the feeling stuff than tell him you love him in nice way but not to strong but nice, nice is good laterz
2006-11-17 16:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by mrl53104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he seems really nice and he likes you as much as you like him, then thats great , but You need to wait till you meet him in person to tell hom you love him, telling someone you love them is strong words , you really need to meet him first, because ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!! talking to him on the internet doesn't tell you at all how he really is .....PLEASE meet him first. I hope things go great for you. but you need to be careful...
2006-11-17 16:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by hugabug72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was dating my hubby we were dating for like two months and i was dropping him off at work and it just came out of my mouth when he was getting off the car i said " bye i love you" i was in shock cuz i have never did that before i couldn't control what i had said i just blurted it out like my heart was controlling my mouth he just looked at me and said " i love you to"
2006-11-17 16:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur sure that's what you feel inside and also when u think they would be ready to hear it if they've never said it to you
2006-11-17 16:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, "Do you think you could ever love me?" See what he says. Then you haven't committed yourself.
2006-11-17 16:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you should tell him, because maybe the feeling is mutual.
2006-11-17 16:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by sexymanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should meet this guy first.
2006-11-17 16:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by 1st time mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋