I'm 15 and i really like this girl who i play cards with on the bus. I would love to get a conversation started but i can never get alone with her to ask her out.
I'm not sure if she already has a bf, but i am pretty sure she is atleast a little attracted to me. Please Help.
2006-11-17 08:39:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont have to be alone with her to ask her out, just make sure that the people around you arent going to make fun of you if you do. Sit by her and start the conversation by asking her what she would say if you asked her out. thats what my boyfriend did. then if she says that her answer would be mabe or yes, all you have to do is ask her out. then start another game of cards so that you wont have to think of stuff to talk about.
2006-11-17 08:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think havin some1 ask 4 you is not a good idea because she might want 2 talk 2you. its best if you do it yourself. All you have to do is talk to her as if she were nothing more than a friend. be yourself play it safe. meaning she is a person like you and i are. I am pretty sure she would be more plaese to speak too you than someone else.
If by any chance she ignors,or rejects you, dont be so down there are plenty of people that would like you just the way you are.And would except you as well.
2006-11-17 10:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to ask when you're alone. It actually increases your chances when you ask with other people around. It shows confidence. Here's what you do:
While playing cards tell her you're going to make it more interesting. Say that if you win the next hand, she has to take you out to dinner. Be playful about it. She'll probably ask what she gets if she wins. Tell her, "I won't. But just to keep things fair what do you want?"
If she says she has a boyfriend just say, "Listen. It's just dinner. Whether you end up taking advantage of me is between you and your boyfriend."
2006-11-17 08:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by bmusementpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. The worst she can say is no. doubt that she'll hate you for asking her, but if you can't get her alone, then just put it out there. I know it's tough to build up the courage to do it, but you ahve nothing to lose. Yall can still play cards together, too.
2006-11-17 08:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by NOT as smart as a 5th grader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello -- You should just call her up and make a date to see her.
Then you should ask her out. It's that all that hard. Find out --
her favorite restaurant. So good luck
2006-11-17 08:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by ARRIVE ALIVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok either write her a note asking her out or get up enough courage to find out her phone number from one of her friends, then call her and ask her out. it is really simple
2006-11-17 08:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always just write her a note and give it to her or have one of your friends too and you can also have a friend ask her to meet you somewhere.
2006-11-17 08:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by MoMo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a note or ask her in her ear or try to find her at school and ask her out.good luck.and remember to breathe.I said that because I know some guys that don't remember to breathe. ok?
2006-11-17 08:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by a girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut say "hay can i talk to you for a minute" trust me she will get the picture that u want to talk to her alone. girls use that all the time when that want to tell someone something
2006-11-17 08:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her number and call her.
2006-11-17 08:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by what attitude? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋