We have all experienced it. We have all been there. We have all done that.
When the one you want to be with says there is no way he will ever return the feelings no matter what you do, how do you deal with it?
2006-11-17 08:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People are capable of amazing feats... accomplishing amazing things... The one thing they can't do is to make someone love them... and that's very hard to deal with... You have to keep your mind focused on other things... and keep yourself busy... and hope that time takes the edges off of your feelings... Maybe someone new will eventually fill the void you feel... but there is little you can do and you come to the realization to let it go...
2006-11-17 23:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by deakjone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just keep moving. I know it's probably easier said than done for most people..but like heck, if I'm going to stick around and put my life on hold for someone who can't love me the way I deserve... No Ma'am!
2006-11-17 16:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When youre ready to let go ...when all graceful or stupid (lol) attempts and avenues have been tried...you let go as best as you can. How else can you deal with it? The death of a dream of a life with someone....That book has been written millions of times. Peace.
2006-11-17 16:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry a lot. Get it out of your system and try to move on. What else can we do? Otherwise we spend our lives wishing for something that will never be. And that's not good.
2006-11-17 16:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do. Then do a once over on yourself to make sure you're okay. You can be okay and quite expertly manipulated. Especially here in America.
2006-11-17 16:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry Honey, but you really should move on and find another man. Hopefully he will make you happy. Good Luck.
2006-11-17 16:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that I want to be with someone who wants and values me. Move on. Get busy with other things, hobbies, people, interests.
2006-11-17 16:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cold shower.... and then run a few mile... sit down....and know that at that moment the person you are to spend ur entire life with is writing this reply for you... :)
2006-11-17 16:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by James A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,accept reality,and still love the other person and be happy for them and their life without you
2006-11-17 16:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to move on. accept the fact that he doenst feel the same as you do.
2006-11-17 16:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋