since june he has been going to sacramento to see his cousins. he went in june, july and oct. one cousin has a friend but she is not all that...short and heavy. i'm tall and nicely built. he even ordered some male enhancements...but we don't need them. so i know he's messing around. he keeps his cell phone near him so i can not go trough it.
2006-11-17 08:35:07 · 10 answers · asked by tightnwet44 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
Get tested for STD's and kick him out...;
2006-11-17 08:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the best way to handle this problem is to be honest with him regarding your feelings. Let him know what you are thinking, and let him know about your itching problem as well and ask him to get tested as well as yourself, the doctors can usually tell which person infected which by the different stage you are in compared to the person who infected you.
You can get some genital from public washroom use, but if you are sure your husband is being unfaithful ask him if he would have the decency to use a condom if he is going to play the field so as not to give you aids or whatever he is tracking in with his infidelity.
Leave him if he confirms your worst fears, how dare he play with your life that way, you read about trusting wives dying of or being ifected by aids because their husbands were indiscreet and it also happens when the wife is unfaithfull, how much more proof do you need that he has absolutly no regard for your safety or his.
Definitely get checked and good luck maybe he was just unsanitary and gave you a yeast infection which still needs to be looked after.
2006-11-17 16:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Itching can be due to many reasons. But if u hv doubt pl check up for STD. Before confirming do not doubt ur hus, it will hv no end. Trust is the best thing.
2006-11-17 16:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by mousumiab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what the hell are you waiting for? You have all the signs there in front of your face and you're online asking strangers what they think. Get some sense and take yourself to the doctors. Stop being the damsel in distress. It's not cute.
2006-11-17 16:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by blazenphoenix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get tested and ask to use his cell phone. and then there is always when he is asleep. you can also go online to your provider website and see what calls were made from the last bill. but you need a password to get into the account
2006-11-17 16:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might have a yeast infection - try some viginal cream
2006-11-17 16:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be yeast infection? Should go see your doc to find out for sure; that'll tell ya if he's cheating. DO NOT let it go, it will cause infertility.
2006-11-17 16:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by mzindica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have a yeast infection go to a doctor instead of asking us ignorant folks on yahoo answers!
2006-11-17 16:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to rule things out is if you go to your gynecologist. If you are dry you can also itch and swell.
2006-11-17 16:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested and get the phone when he is asleep. You can do it girl
2006-11-17 16:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋