It's this guy in my Peace studies class that I get into a lot of arguements with. I had a crush on him since the first day of school because I thought he was very cute and he made me laugh. Now I can't stand him because he called me a racist name and we got into a big argument. I still have some sort of crush on him.
2006-11-17 08:34:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still have a crush on him because while your mind is saying, "Kick this hammer toe bozo to the curb" your body is saying, "Oh, God, he is SOOOO hot!"
Either that or his calling you a name has turned you on in some strange way. Might want to think on that abit.
2006-11-17 08:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by trocaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sort of thing is perfectly natural. Some crushes may take a while to get over, and other take just a day or two. Try not to think about him or the crush. If you want to speed up the proccess of getting over the crush, you should try pointing out all his faults. Not to him, of course, to youself. Show yourself that he lacks the respect needed to be together with you. A man who calls a woman a disrespectful name, isn't a man at all. Respect youself by choosing to be with people who respect you.
Good luck.
2006-11-17 16:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by boy_skowting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to be a common problem. Guess that's why I'm alone. But if he called you a racist name, I wouldn't give him the time of day unless he apologized first. There's no excuse for it.
2006-11-17 16:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... Unless you can somehow get him to realize what he said is wrong... then I say crush on someone ELSE!
2006-11-17 16:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i have the same problems i always have crushes on the the guys who absolutley hate me..i just dont know why??!!
2006-11-17 16:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Chris and Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what he did to you, u cant hide your true feelings thats why u still like him!! u have to confront him
2006-11-17 16:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u lik him after the thing he told u? i wouldnt lik him.
2006-11-17 16:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably called you that because your fat and ugly and you should just kill yourself.
2006-11-17 16:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Killing is fun 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it is a physical attraction
2006-11-17 16:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋