This guy and i got together in March, just a snog, but he had a gf, so we did nothing more, then we started to text each other, very flirty. he broke up with his gf in august[she moved away] so we continue to text and now we meet up. we have snogged a few times, but only sometimes[we go out sometimes and don't] so i don't know what to do! i know i should ask him, but i really like the flirty texts and kisses, and if i push him, hemight suggest we just stay friends? help..please?
2006-11-17 08:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like both of yall are scary b/c if he's flirting with you and vice verca that obvisoulsy means that you guys have interest in each other. Continue to text- and be bold with what you want. Coming from a guy I know it will definetely go somewhere from there. I know your thinking "I don't want him to think I'm a tramp". Hopefully you guys have enough history that he won't think that of you. But if he doesn't you'll still end up hooking up and in that time you communicate to him that you would like something serious with him ect.
2006-11-17 08:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing all men want (and seldom get) is a woman who is very upfront and tells you her desires, wants and needs without the games some of the ladies have suggested. If you want it tell him so, after all why put a lot of thought or time into something if the other party is not interested it is better to know quickly and move on.
2006-11-17 16:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by funson35111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes you, so why don't you send him a flirty text asking him out, and see what his response is. Depending on what he replies you should be able to build on it from there. Then developing on from that ask him out, for a drink and then see what happens
2006-11-17 16:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know the truth if he turns you down, better than hanging around waiting for him, if hes not the one then maybe mr right is just around the corner, you might miss him if your waiting round for this fella!
2006-11-17 16:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Summerbreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Push it! Otherwise you'll never know, now will you? Tell him you want to see him more often. Call him. Invite him out. Do it! It'll be fun.
2006-11-17 16:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to accompany you to a party, but leave the basis of the relationship (friend/date) to him. Keep doing it.
2006-11-17 16:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes jus shy tell him you want him to butter your muffin, if that dont work sack im and il sort you out good and proper, you will be climbin the walls backwards, by the way its sarahs mate
2006-11-17 16:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. All that snogging--really!
2006-11-17 16:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best to know what the future holds. if he likes you, you should know and he should tell you. playing games are for kids so just let him know how you feel and ask what his plans are when it comes to you
2006-11-17 16:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by DoubleD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it in gently and if not go 4 it.
2006-11-17 16:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋