ok, so my bf just moved allll the way to Paris and i can't stop crying. i was going to lipkiss him at the end of the day, but i didn't have time. and i only side hugged him, not fully. and i felt HORRIBLE about that. then like i was so scared around him, and i never talked and that made me feel bad. i'm 13 and i need help with this! badly, i can't get ahold of myself and i can't get my self together. i love him so much, and now he's gone. we never officially broke up and that made me feel worse. i don't know why. PLEASE HELP! *tear*tear*sniffle*sniffle*
2006-11-17 08:12:27 · 17 answers · asked by H A N N A H(: 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just left today, and i have all these ugly gross wierdos likeing me now. and he was like the popular blonde hot guy! i hate having all these ugly guys chassing me. soooo ah-nnoying!
2006-11-17 08:14:18 · update #1
and i have NO way of contacting him. he doesn't have a cell, i don't know his new #, new address or old address. and he doesn't have e-mail. or myspace or ANYTHING... sad sad sad sad
2006-11-17 08:16:50 · update #2
I believe that everything happens for a reason~ Maybe one day this experience will enbolden you to act on something that you might otherwise have let slip away.
You are still so young~ your memories of this guy will always be sweet and last foever. Who knows, you might see him again one day.............Take heart. You'll be happy again. Maybe he'll find you?
2006-11-17 08:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by d☻min☺ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a bit older than 13, but I remember how bad it hurt when relationships ended. It still hurts when you get older too. The only difference is that when your older you realize that you will get over it eventually and you will come to the day when you can't hardly remember how good it was to have and how bad it hurt to end. So try to remind yourself of the positive things that come from this. He this guy was such a great guy, implement that into your standards. You know now how you want to be treated and what you expect from a boyfriend. Think about the fact that this guy is such a small fraction of the experiences you have ahead of you.... now you have no one holding you back. I'm sure you never considered him as holding you back, but truth is that there is a lot you won't experience and learn by being in relationship at such a young age. The world has so much to offer and if this guy was any good at all then he has helped you be a better person and a person who will explore the world a little wiser than you were before. Try to keep somewhat in touch with each other though.... once the hurt goes away some, you two could end up being great friends and great support for each other. I hope I have gave you something to look forward to and not so much regretting you had. It'll be O.K.
2006-11-17 16:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Missjava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have so much emotion and love, which is so sweet. Your bf is lucky to have you as a gf. Just think about the great times you two had together and think about how great it will be when he comes back. He wouldn't want you to cry and be miserable, because being all in tears is a turn-off for a guy. So try to be happy and optimistic because he would like you better that way.
2006-11-17 16:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well most of these answers are probably going to result in saying that you're too young to be in love but I don't think its true. If you think you loved him, then you did. Everytime you think about this boy, center your mind on something else. Watch tv, cut on the radio, go outside and play, or read a book. Just make sure none of these activities contain love stories or romance. I'm not going to say that getting over him is the easiest thing to do, because its not. You've got to tell yourself that now yall can't be together and that you've got to move on. Convince yourself that you've got to move on. Don't be angry at anyone else because you can't see him. Just slowly try to put him out of your mind even though he'll always be in your heart.
2006-11-17 16:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by baby_blue_trouble10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to breathe! ur only 13 and i bet you can find someone new. but i totally understand how u feel, but realize that he's moved away for what ever reason, and you just have to realize that. however ICE CREAM really helps, cry over a box of that and in the morning all ur tears will be gone!!
2006-11-17 16:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by miss_villegas_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Find out if you officially broke up.
2. If you are officially broken up, go out with some different people to get your mind off of him. Stay busy. Believe me, this works.
3. If you haven't officially broken up, talk to him about how things will ever work.
4. Just stay busy. Keep your mind off of him. Meet new guys. Only time will tell.
2006-11-17 16:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try a long distance thing untill you get back on your feet ...at least that way you could tell him how you feel. but in the end you need to move on..
PS try talking to the "LESS DESIRABLE" guys you might like one for who he is and that can be better than just looks. Hey there are plenty of fish in the ocean and atleast these fish dont live in paris.
2006-11-17 16:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off your only 13 you have your whole life to find a guy thats probably gonna be WAY better than him! Dont worry time heals all wounds... if you wanna talk im here for you =)
2006-11-17 16:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG sweety you've been thru alot...jeez...well you can try to drink something ( not alchohol LOL) there are other guys out there who wouldd go out with you...wow i don't have a lot to say bcuz i've never been there... i'm so sorry tho
2006-11-17 16:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by pink_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are only 13 and this is puppy love you have your whole life for the real love write a letter to make things right and go out and have some fun with the girls to make it allbetter.
2006-11-17 16:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by rachael s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋