I am a man and my friend is a woman. I am attracted to her and I pay a lot of thing to her
2006-11-17 07:22:37 · 14 answers · asked by flycelo68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women are only attracted to money - ah duh
2006-11-17 07:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to pay for something and judge her reaction
if she is really taken back.
that's just how things are
try and do things that don't envolve money
like lets go to the museum or to the park or something like that.
or you can have a longterm experiment and create an elaborate scheem saying that you're running out of money and see if she drifts away..
it's is really difficult to know if her friendship is genuine.
most likely she dose like you as a friend but the money is a contributor....but you can't blame her, who wants to pay for things.
She is your friend.. most likely........just that the money is very attractive too.... not sure.... good luck though
or make her pay once in a while
2006-11-17 15:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must stop spending money on her to discover ,stop whatever you have done ,very soon she will change or she will show her uninterest .i cant say because you pay for a lot of things she likes you.it can be a reason but not the only one .So give it a try and discover whether she cares for you or for your money.
2006-11-17 15:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man... any man who works hard for his money shoudl never take it for granted.... now if you wnat to find out if she likes you try not paying for once... dont even have to be sly about it... its the new era women take out men all the time... i personally always pay for myself.. and my women frined... but whne i am in doubt wheter its the money of the pounds they are after (i live in london), i ask them to treat em to a nice meal...I decide the place depending on thier status...
I have also been frank and asked her that i dont knwo where i stand with you... so i will not pay for anything nay more if u still wnat to c me fine if not then off you go... if she is after your money she will pretend to be hurt that you did not trust her enough or u though so low off her, but if she is really into you she will stay and try to convince you that you are wrong... and you can always apologize later...
2006-11-17 15:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by James A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to stop paying for much. If she stays with you, then she is either live strong to wait it out till you spend money on her again, or she really likes you. Good luck!
2006-11-17 15:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa Dagger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop paying for things. Suggest activeities to do together that don't cost money and see where that goes.
2006-11-17 15:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by libra1079 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW FOR SURE QUITE PAYING FOR HER STUFF. LET HER BUY HER OWN AND IF SHE STILL HANGS WITH YOU AND ACTS THE SAME THEN YOU KNOW SHE IS FOR REAL AND IF SHE STARTS MAKING UP EXCUSES OF WHY SHE CANT GO OUT ANY MORE OR HER ATTITUDE CHANGES THEN ITS JUST THE MONEY.
2006-11-17 15:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop buying everything and do things that don`t cost money all the time.If that doesn`t work nothing will.keep it up for a few weeks just to see.
2006-11-17 15:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cut the money off, and she how she acts, tell her that your straight up broke, and she if she is still around
2006-11-17 15:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So,cut out the material things and see what happens.
2006-11-17 15:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful of who you want to spoil...because people will take advantage of you. It is your fault for paying...you need to stop.
2006-11-17 15:25:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋