ok so i came to live to my dads house and my brother introduced me to one of his friends i liked her right away, but my brother liked her too just yesterday she told me that she likes me not him and now my brother is mad at me because shes going to be my girlfriend soon what can i do
2006-11-17 07:22:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since a girl is not property - then her feelings are paramount, She will have to explain her preference to your brother, and everyone will have to accept the way things are.
2006-11-17 07:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by kentata 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Ok first of I a female and I had a pair of brothers who liked me and I dated one them and the other was so jealous and always trying to cause problems. First you need to talk to your brother expalin how you feel about her and tell him that hes your brother and you care about how he feels but you would hope that he would be understanding and except that she like you and you want to date her with his blessings. And be prepared for him to be upset for awhile but another girl will come around.
Ask yourself if it was the other way around would your brother date her even if it upset you? If so date her if not dont dater. It all up to you!
2006-11-17 15:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common in most cases of love triangle the simple answer to this is you shoud tell your brother about her feelings aslove is between 2 people one has to sacrifice when 2 people like each other
2006-11-17 15:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by shaikhudude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the chick ~ hehe There are so many around - is it worth fighting about with your brother who will always be there for a girl who might change her mind in a few months?
2006-11-17 15:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously discuss this with him. If he can't get past it you need to decide if she is really worth hurting your brother over. Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go. Brothers and Sisters are forever.
2006-11-17 15:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to your brother hey, the girl likes me, there is nothing I can do about it. You can't force the girl to like him instead. If he has any rationality to his thought process he should be able to understand that he can't force her to like him if she doesn't.
You can't really do much of anything to influence the way the girl feels about either of you, either way. So your brother should just accept that the girl likes you instead of getting mad. It's not your fault that she likes you over him, it's how she feels and he should just respect that.
2006-11-17 15:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by jennnnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my brothers, fighting over a chick!! Do you really want to hurt your brother? Do you normally steal his dates? He saw her first, more fish in the sea!
2006-11-17 15:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have U seen the series Desire? Look how that turned out
All I can say is Blood is Thicker then water Remember that
2006-11-17 15:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she chose you over him then it's final. Brothers always work things out...he'll find someone else. BUT respect him enough not to talk about your time together(you and her) in front of him or kiss and hold eachother in front of him. BUT don't hide from either.
2006-11-17 15:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Grasshopper 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called roll with the punches, if she likes you, and not your brother, go with it, your brother will get over it, you might have to roll with the punches though, you could try to talk to your brother, but he will probelly hit you
2006-11-17 15:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋