i am 18 now , the problem is not that i have never had a boyfriend , but actually i have never been loved or admired by any boy , no boy has ever wanted to be more than a friend to me
is it something wrong with me ?
2006-11-17 07:21:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not. One of the greatest girls I know wasn't asked out til she was about 22, and she's amazing. Probably you're a really great girl and guys are just in awe of you. My fiancee was a bit like that...she's a godess, and it took me a little while to ask her out. Oh and... if a guy treats you anything other than as a godess, dump him!! Peace
2006-11-17 07:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're probably just a late bloomer. Let me ask you this- would you say you were a shy person? Maybe guys just don't notice you because you don't draw any attention to yourself. I hope you're planning on going to college, because it's a great place to come out of your shell and find your "real self," as well as a good place to start dating. As you get older, the boys will mature and it won't be as difficult to get their attention. Besides, you didn't miss much not having a boyfriend in high school- they're pretty immature at that age!
2006-11-17 15:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are the friend type maybe they dnt think you like them or you just come on to them as just a friend, i find it hard to be friends wit sum1 them go wit them its just weird. There iz nu 10 wrong wit you, i'm 13 and i've been on a date, maybe it takes longer for others, just wait you'll go one a date sooner or later.
2006-11-17 15:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried asking a guy out? are you a tomboy and all your guy friends see you as one of them and not a girl? if so change something bout yourself so that way they will see that your a girl and not one of the guys! i was a tomboy never really dated anyone till i started acting like a girl.i never really even had girl friends most of my friends were guys
2006-11-17 15:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by purplepeach1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Sadly, I feel for you. Same problem here. No boy has ever goteen close to me not counting kindergarten. Im not uguly, I dont know our problem. Maybe you should socialize more?
2006-11-17 15:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Ugly or a Fat Heffer??? Maybe missing a few teeth... Or maybe you have some bad B.O. Or maybe the guys by you are just idiots....
Send me some pics (including naked pics), and I'll let you know if you're hot....
rsherman_1998@yahoo.com
2006-11-17 15:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No enough info. Are you beutiful, romantic, do you go to places where you can meet boys etc. Not only boys ask girls out now, Gals also ask boys out.
2006-11-17 15:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by fine boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b bothered by it- i was admired by my bf for 3 years b4 he got up the guts to tell me. (and it was a complete shock to me b/c i had no idea) guys r shy. just b/c u dont no or c it- doesn't mean it isn't there.
2006-11-17 15:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try someone you have always had a crush on thats what i did and now im proposing onvalentines just go for it
2006-11-17 15:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow thats very akward...but i guess you dont ever try to get to know someone a bit more than JUST a friend..come outa ur shell and hopefully u'll find someone that appreciates you..good luck!!
2006-11-17 15:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋