today she saw it and i failed 2 subjects but got a's and b's in all the rest of them..i know i wouldnt have failed if i tried harder but now she isn't talking to me and she told me she is going to tell my dad when he gets home. he is going to be so mad i he probably will start screaming at me..what should i do?? can anyone make me feel better?
2006-11-17 07:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Calm down your parents love you regardless of your grades.Yes they can be hard on you but its only because they care they know that your grades will affect your future.So chin up It will be ok.
2006-11-17 07:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by morganslilone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if this will make you feel better, and even though I don't agree with your parents way of dealing with it, I can understand why they are upset.
They know what you can do, and for some reason you are not only failing in your grades, but you are failing yourself. If you know you can do the work, then do it and learn all you can, and if you really can't get it, get help with it.
Don't cheat yourself out of an education that some people can only wish they could have.
Sometimes when someone starts failing in some subjects it can mean that they are having a problem in their life. Is everything ok with you? Do you feel happy with your lifestyle, or are you going through changes like most kids do as they grow up.
You know why you failed those subjects, and maybe if you go to your dad, you show him, and tell him you know you messed up and promise to catch up on those subjects, maybe they will see that you are more mature than they thought.
Unfortunately, report cards are the first lessons in your life as far as being responsible for your own actions, especially if even you know you could have done better.
You will always have to answer on your actions, if not to your parents, then a boss at work, a spouse, or society in general (if you break the law) etc.
I know that there are a lot of other things in life as you grow up that will draw your attention away from your schoolwork, just always remember to be true to yourself first. Don't let other things interfere with the things you can do to better yourself in life and education.
Good Luck, and study hard, show your parents and yourself that you can do it!!!!
2006-11-17 07:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that your parents love you no matter what you do wrong or how badly you are doing in school.
Explain to them that you will try harder and pass those 2 subjects you failed. They are only upset because they care and want you to do your best. You are very lucky. Some parents don't care how their children do in school. Just remember that!!
If I were you, I would write on a piece of paper punishments for yourself before your dad gets home and starts screaming at you! (That will shock and amaze them!) Write down that you will come home every day after school and do your homework/study really hard until those subjects are passed, no TV for yourself until everything is done, no phone calls until everything is done-whatever you think is reasonable for yourself that you think will work. OK? See if that helps. Good luck sweety!! :-)
2006-11-17 07:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a former instructor. We made moms and dads signal the exams so there ere no surprises come list card time. You knew what your grades were so that you really would have discovered your list grade grade. i do not purchase the clueless act. ok- the really grades recorded on your college files is your very last end of the three hundred and sixty 5 days accepted for each difficulty. those are the grades despatched to the universities alongside with the grades for the first 2 quarters of your senior 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. so that you've yet another marking era to boost your grades. Get extra help, a educate, and a lot less chilling on the pc.
2016-11-25 00:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by adel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you better be ready with a plan of action not to let it happen again..that should impress him enough to take it easy.
Write the plan down and post it on the refrigerator just for good measure. Be specific...like "I will study each night for an additional hour" or "I will not make or accept any telephone calls until I have completed my work" or "I will not be online until all my work has been completed and checked by mom or dad".
2006-11-17 07:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by bikeworks 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You brought this on yourself. Just promise and follow through with actually doing better. The only thing bad grades do to you IS RUIN YOUR FUTURE!!! So study hard, stay in school and actually make something of yourself. If your not going to get good grades then drop out now and save us taxpayers some money!
2006-11-17 07:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just stay quiet and take all the cues he's giving you. when he says something and he wants you to answer just say what he wants to hear. but becareful sometimes when he talks and asks a question it may be one that's retorical.
GOOD LUCK!!!!! hope everything works out
2006-11-17 13:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey all you can do is say "I'm sorry" and really mean. when someone says those words it should mean something and know that it will never happend again. try your best next time and ask for help if you need it. so next time around they'll know that you really ment you were.
2006-11-17 07:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by saturdaygirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop staring at the boys and pay more attention to what is being taught to you in school.
2006-11-17 07:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋