LADIES: do u this im abnormal?

Question

i drive an 18 wheeler and im gone for 3-4 weeks. when i get home i expect to have sex with my g/f. when i get home i take her out to dinner, come home, out in a movie then at the end of the night i want some fun. she says to expect sex the first night im home is NOT NORMAL. all of her other b/f's worked 7 days on and 7 days off and they would come home and be willing to go to bed without sex the first night. (however they were getting some while they were gone) i only want her and no one else but it is getting more difficult. were are mature over 40 and no kids at home. in the beginning of this relationship she was all over me, but i found out this was due to alcohol. she has been sober for about 6 months and this is when it started. i feel that after all the time im away she should be good and ready, she says that to do the sex thing when i get home she needs alcohol, i think she i screwing around. ur opinions

Answer 1

She apparantly has some sexual issues. If she needs alcohol to have sex. With her own man. Who she doesn't see for weeks. I'd be jumping you when you walked in the door. I'd be tempted to think she was screwing around also. But maybe seriously she still has alcohol problems. She may be going through a depression of some kind. She needs to speak to a psychologist or someone. Couples counseling maybe? If this is a major problem in your relationship maybe you should find someone else.

Answer 2

Yes the state you and she is in is abnormal.Dude dont you know that anyone opearting their life under any kind of drugs, (alcohol is a drug) is unreliable. She merely wants to know that she is not an sex object to you. That shes not just where you go to,to get your sex So if she isnt. tell her what you said to us, that you only want her, that you have waited for her while you were working.
Besides the truth is that sex is the way a man expresses his love for his girl. You need to ask her why she needs to drink before you have sex. She may tell you something that happened to her.Or she may need it to get rid of the guilt, knowing that she should only be sleeping with her husband. Are you her husband?
How much do you love her ? if at all Are you ready to love her in marriage?

Answer 3

I am not a lady but you need to realize that she is like a crock pot. She will take a long time to warm up and a very long time to cool off. From what you posted you are treating her like a prostitute. In essence what you expect is that if you spend money on her then in return she should have sex with you.
The best way to keep her turned on is to be totally committed to her. The best way to do that is to marry her. If you are not willing to then you REALLY treating her like a hooker.

Answer 4

reduce her some slack and attempt being a touch more convenient - for crying out loud, she is largely your female friend. also stop calling her condition elementary or accuse her of dishonest. it will make her indignant, and reason you extra issues than you may take care of. After 3-4 weeks, she has actually forgotten who you're, and she or he has to get to understand you all yet back. you're this unusual guy who has walked proper in, and is annoying prompt sexual delight. She is less than no criminal responsibility to provider you. females do not continually get attractive like adult males do. She is a females who of course ought to be aroused slowly. She could be romanced almost as when you're having a first date. do not make assumptions and characteristic expectations that you'll walk proper back right into a relationship precisely the position you left it. continually remember it is mandatory to get into her head earlier you may get into her pants.

Answer 5

I'm a guy but dude you're totally normal... however, it sounds like you need to try something else than what you're doing, find something that makes her feel really special and loved. Different girls have different needs, and I'm sure you can find what it is she likes. Don't concentrate on getting sex, concentrate on making her feel the most beautiful, loved and wanted woman alive...
Peace

Answer 6

I'd say you need a new g/f if she needs alcohol to want to have sex with you.

Answer 7

If my husband came home and expected me to put out i'd make him wait too

Answer 8

she wants her drinks bak

y dont u try acting like u dont want it- then she'll b more willing to give it, but she nos that she cant use it as a power stuggle

Answer 9

why does she need alcohol, I think you should ask her doctor maybe this is a side effect, or maybe she is cheating but i think yiou should check with the side effect first...