My boyfriend watches porn and can stay hard watching that, but when it comes to us doing something, and me being the freak i am with him, he cant stay up...what do you guys think????
2006-11-17 07:17:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see the thing is...he says that i am the freakiest chick he has ever been with and then while having sex, he always needs me to give him a bj to get him back up. I am a sexy @ss girl and know exactly what i am doing. He says that he just watches porn becuz he is bored. I dont believe that crap, if i watch it, and dont have s*e*x with him, he gets upset.
2006-11-17 07:48:29 · update #1
The problem is that he is being too tensed while doing it with you... try and make him relax... lot of foreplay should work ... spend more time on it and do some talking while doing it... ask him questions like what he wants u to do.... should get him going.
2006-11-17 07:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by snip3r_scorpion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy thing. It is called biology. He has already had sex with you and, especially if he is under 30 or so, he is looking for sex with some one else, even if it is only on the screen. You need to work at it a little harder or watch the porn with him and jump his bones in the middle of it. He will stay hard then.
2006-11-17 15:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is gay and is watching the porn for the guys in it......who knows, but if he stays hard watching the porn, put it on while you guys are doing it. That way you both get satisfied. Some guys just like to watch.
2006-11-17 15:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has issues with intamacy. Porn has nothing to do with being intimate...but with a partner there is intimacy (even if there doesn't seem to be sometimes)...does he love you, how long have you two been seeing eachother, there are a lot of things you would need to ask yourself first by trying to figure this thing out. Some guys are more comfortable with themselves then with a partner, it could be nerves...have you tried watching porn together?
2006-11-17 15:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the porn on while you're doing it. Ask him. Maybe there's some particular move he'd like to see. Or maybe he's just worn out by the time he gets to you.
2006-11-17 15:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like there isn't any chemistry from him to you. Ask him whats up. If no reply then look on the other side of the fence.
2006-11-17 15:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by scrappypapa754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain how you are a freak with him ?
why not have sex with him whilst watching porn ?
2006-11-17 15:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur doing something wrong, or mayb he just doesn't have any left in him
2006-11-17 15:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say your boyfriend is not attracted to you
2006-11-17 15:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by jess0866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋